Tuesday, July 5, 2022

Reflection - Journeying With Others - Giving grace

Source (book): "He Walks with Me - Devotions for Your Caregiving Journey with God", PART III "JOURNEYING WITH OTHERS", Chapter 22 "Giving grace", Page 66.
Adapted from books by Shelly Beach: Ambushed By Grace: Help and Hope in the Caregiving Journey, and It Is Well with My Soul.


Love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins . . . use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms. - 1 Peter 4:8, 10
PHOTO: Love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins . . . use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms. - 1 Peter 4:8, 10

You've probably faced scenarios like these: a demanding mother throwing a tantrum because you won't stay with her through the night. An ungrateful father dissatisfied with what you and your brother give him. A sister accusing you of not caring enough for Mum.

These are times when you've done everything you could. You've drawn clear boundaries, establishing what you will or will not do, and made clear how you are to be treated and respected. Yet someone insists on breaking the "rules" and behaving unreasonably. What can you do?

The answer: give grace.

Grace is what we received from God when He sent His Son to die for us. Grace is unmerited favour and kindness. It is not being judged by our words or actions. Grace sees past faults and goes beyond the surface of who we are, to whom God intends us to be. Our salvation by grace, says Ephesians 2:8, "is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God".

Many of us, however, tend to hoard grace. Having received grace, we keep it to ourselves. We find it hard to forgive others, like the unforgiving servant in the parable of Matthew 18:21-35. We find it easier to judge others by their failures, forgetting that God has overlooked our own.

But we can be grace givers instead. We can pass on God's gift as faithful stewards of His boundless grace (1 Peter 4:10). We can look beyond people's faults, forgive, bless, and love. We can lay down our rights and serve in humble submission to God, just as Jesus did in humility. We can love others deeply with a love that is able to see beyond "a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8).

We can do all this because we have a secure knowledge of who we are in Christ. We can look to the cross, where the ultimate gift of grace was poured out on all mankind, and tell others, "I know who I am, so I'm empowered to see who God intended you to be, to freely give and to forgive you."

Just as we are reconciled to God by His grace through Christ's death and resurrection, grace will also reconcile us to others. It is a balm of healing on wounds and scars, and it has the power to change lives.

And even when actual reconciliation doesn't take place between people, and the grace offered is not accepted, the giver is still changed by the act.

Indeed, one of the most amazing things about being a conduit of God's grace is that we get something in return: freedom and maturity. We begin to step out of the centre and see others as God sees them. And we begin to live in true freedom - not at the whim of others - independent of their actions, words, and approval.

Freely we have received, freely we give.

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Love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins . . . use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms. - 1 Peter 4:8, 10


Love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins . . . use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms
PHOTO: Love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins . . . use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God's grace in its various forms. - 1 Peter 4:8, 10 
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You've probably faced scenarios like these: a demanding mother throwing a tantrum because you won't stay with her through the night. An ungrateful father dissatisfied with what you and your brother give him. A sister accusing you of not caring enough for Mum.

These are times when you've done everything you could. You've drawn clear boundaries, establishing what you will or will not do, and made clear how you are to be treated and respected. Yet someone insists on breaking the "rules" and behaving unreasonably. What can you do?


These are times when you've done everything you could.
PHOTO: These are times when you've done everything you could. You've drawn clear boundaries, establishing what you will or will not do, and made clear how you are to be treated and respected. Yet someone insists on breaking the "rules" and behaving unreasonably.
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The answer: give grace.

Grace is what we received from God when He sent His Son to die for us. Grace is unmerited favour and kindness. It is not being judged by our words or actions. Grace sees past faults and goes beyond the surface of who we are, to whom God intends us to be. Our salvation by grace, says Ephesians 2:8, "is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God".


Grace is what we received from God when He sent His Son to die for us.
PHOTO: Grace is what we received from God when He sent His Son to die for us. Grace is unmerited favour and kindness. It is not being judged by our words or actions. Grace sees past faults and goes beyond the surface of who we are, to whom God intends us to be. Our salvation by grace, says Ephesians 2:8, "is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God".
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Many of us, however, tend to hoard grace. Having received grace, we keep it to ourselves. We find it hard to forgive others, like the unforgiving servant in the parable of Matthew 18:21-35. We find it easier to judge others by their failures, forgetting that God has overlooked our own.

But we can be grace givers instead. We can pass on God's gift as faithful stewards of His boundless grace (1 Peter 4:10). We can look beyond people's faults, forgive, bless, and love. We can lay down our rights and serve in humble submission to God, just as Jesus did in humility. We can love others deeply with a love that is able to see beyond "a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8).


We can be grace givers.
PHOTO: We can be grace givers. We can pass on God's gift as faithful stewards of His boundless grace (1 Peter 4:10). We can look beyond people's faults, forgive, bless, and love. We can lay down our rights and serve in humble submission to God, just as Jesus did in humility. We can love others deeply with a love that is able to see beyond "a multitude of sins" (1 Peter 4:8).
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We can do all this because we have a secure knowledge of who we are in Christ. We can look to the cross, where the ultimate gift of grace was poured out on all mankind, and tell others, "I know who I am, so I'm empowered to see who God intended you to be, to freely give and to forgive you."

Just as we are reconciled to God by His grace through Christ's death and resurrection, grace will also reconcile us to others. It is a balm of healing on wounds and scars, and it has the power to change lives.


We have a secure knowledge of who we are in Christ.
PHOTO: We have a secure knowledge of who we are in Christ. We can look to the cross, where the ultimate gift of grace was poured out on all mankind, and tell others, "I know who I am, so I'm empowered to see who God intended you to be, to freely give and to forgive you."
Just as we are reconciled to God by His grace through Christ's death and resurrection, grace will also reconcile us to others. It is a balm of healing on wounds and scars, and it has the power to change lives.
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And even when actual reconciliation doesn't take place between people, and the grace offered is not accepted, the giver is still changed by the act.

Indeed, one of the most amazing things about being a conduit of God's grace is that we get something in return: freedom and maturity. We begin to step out of the centre and see others as God sees them. And we begin to live in true freedom - not at the whim of others - independent of their actions, words, and approval.


Indeed, one of the most amazing things about being a conduit of God's grace is that we get something in return:
PHOTO: Indeed, one of the most amazing things about being a conduit of God's grace is that we get something in return: freedom and maturity. We begin to step out of the centre and see others as God sees them. And we begin to live in true freedom - not at the whim of others - independent of their actions, words, and approval.
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Freely we have received, freely we give.


Freely we have received, freely we give.
PHOTO: "Father God, thank You for Your grace, forgiveness, and abundant blessing. May I be a conduit of this grace in the lives of others. May I have a heart to pass on the same love and forgiveness that I've received. Give me wisdom and discernment to speak words of grace, or to show grace in my actions.

Through Lord Jesus Christ we pray. Amen!
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Reflection - Journeying With Others - Giving grace
Source (book): "He Walks with Me - Devotions for Your Caregiving Journey with God", PART III "JOURNEYING WITH OTHERS", Chapter 22 "Giving grace", Page 66.
Adapted from books by Shelly Beach: Ambushed By Grace: Help and Hope in the Caregiving Journey, and It Is Well with My Soul.



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Reference
[1] From "He Walks with Me - Devotions for Your Caregiving Journey with God", Copyright © 2018 by Our Daily Bread Ministries, PART III "JOURNEYING WITH OTHERS", Chapter 22 "Giving grace", Page 66-67.


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