Thursday, April 30, 2026

Reflection - How do married couples practise 'leaving and cleaving'

Source (book): "In The Beginning", Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis, Chapter 2, "A Garden and a Marriage (Genesis 2:4-25)", Question 2, "How do married couples practise 'leaving and cleaving'", Page 16.
By Robert M. Solomon, Bishop of the Methodist Church in Singapore from 2000 - 2012


'Leave and cleave' is a biblical marriage principle from Genesis 2:24, directing spouses to prioritize their new union over parents or extended family.
PHOTO: "Leave and cleave" is a biblical marriage principle from Genesis 2:24, directing spouses to prioritize their new union over parents or extended family. It means leaving behind primary dependency on parents (physically, emotionally, financially) and clinging to the spouse, creating an independent, "one-flesh" partnership.

Key Meaning and Components:
  • Leave: Separating from parents as the primary family unit to establish a new, autonomous household.
  • Cleave: Tightly bonding to the spouse, derived from the Hebrew word dāḇaq (meaning to stick, adhere, or cling closely).
  • Priority Shift: Placing the spouse's needs above parents, siblings, and extended family.
  • Commitment: Forming a secure, unified team through emotional, physical, and financial oneness. 

Usage Examples & Scenarios:
  • Setting Boundaries: Making decisions together as a couple before informing parents, ensuring the spouse is not undermined by in-laws.
  • Financial Independence: Managing finances, debt, and spending independent of parental assistance.
  • Holiday Prioritization: Choosing to spend holidays together as a new family unit rather than automatically defaulting to the family of origin.
  • Emotional Loyalty: Supporting the spouse first during conflict, rather than reverting to siding with parents. 

Synonyms for Leave and Cleave:
Leave: Detach, depart, separate, establish independence.
Cleave: Adhere, cling, unite, bond, hold fast, attach.


Common Misconceptions:
"Leave and cleave" does not mean abandoning, cutting off, or disrespecting parents, but rather reordering the relationship to ensure the marriage is the top human priority. 


If you are married, how do you and your spouse practise "leaving and cleaving" (Genesis 2:24 KJV) in your marriage?

In Chapter 2 of "In The Beginning: Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis", Robert M. Solomon explains that "leaving and cleaving" (Genesis 2:24) is about a new priority. It means a couple puts their relationship with each other above all other human relationships, including their parents.

Here is how a couple can "leave and cleave" in simple Singapore English:

1. "Leave" — Moving out and making own decisions
"Leave" doesn’t mean you don't love your parents anymore. It means your spouse is now your #1.
  • Decide together: When you have big problems or want to buy something expensive, you talk to your spouse first. Don't always run back to your parents to ask for permission like a kid.
  • New home, new rules: Even if you live near your parents or visit them for Sunday dinner, the "final say" for your own family stays between you and your spouse.

2. "Cleave" — Stick together like glue
"Cleave" means to be super loyal and "joined together".
  • Protect each other: If someone—even your own sibling or parent—says something bad about your spouse, you must stand up for your spouse. Don't let others "anyhow" say things that hurt your marriage.
  • Sharing everything: You become "one flesh". This means sharing your feelings, your money, and your dreams. No more "my money" and "your money" only; it's "our money."

3. Making it work in SG
In Singapore, we are very close to our families. But "leaving and cleaving" helps to prevent "mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law" drama. When the husband and wife are united, the whole family becomes more stable because the marriage foundation is strong.

Why It Matters
Couples who fail to leave and cleave often face "Saas-Bahu" (Hindi word for mother-in-law (saas) vs. daughter-in-law (bahu)) style conflicts or find themselves feeling betrayed when a spouse values a parent's opinion over theirs. Counselors often note that the inability to establish this independence is a frequent root cause of marital discord and divorce. 

While the principle demands a change in priority, it does not mean abandoning or disrespecting parents; the biblical mandate to "honor your father and mother" remains. It simply transitions from a relationship of obedience (do what I say) to one of honoring (respect from heart).


Key Takeaways in Singapore Context
  • Obey can be without honor: You can follow instructions, but still talk back or feel angry inside. That is not honor. 
  • True honor includes obedience: If you truly respect your parents, you will naturally listen to them. 
  • Honoring is forever: Even after you move out or your parents are very old, you still "honor" them by looking after them (filial piety), even if you don't need to "obey" them every day like a child. 
  • When to stop obeying? If parents ask you to do something wrong (e.g., break law or do something unethical), you don't have to obey, but you can still honor them by refusing politely. 
  • Filial Piety: In our local context, honoring is closely linked to filial piety. It means protecting your parents' dignity, providing for their needs, and ensuring they are valued in society.
 
Biblical Distinction Between Obedience and Honor in Ephesians 6
In Ephesians 6:1-3, obedience is the temporary, situational action of following parental instructions while under their authority, while honor is a permanent, heart-level attitude of respect and care lasting throughout life. Obedience applies primarily to children, whereas honoring parents applies to all, regardless of age.
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"Leave and cleave" is a biblical marriage principle from Genesis 2:24, directing spouses to prioritize their new union over parents or extended family. It means leaving behind primary dependency on parents (physically, emotionally, financially) and clinging to the spouse, creating an independent, "one-flesh" partnership.


 'Leave and cleave' is a biblical marriage principle from Genesis 2:24, directing spouses to prioritize their new union over parents or extended family.
PHOTO: "Leave and cleave" is a biblical marriage principle from Genesis 2:24, directing spouses to prioritize their new union over parents or extended family. It means leaving behind primary dependency on parents (physically, emotionally, financially) and clinging to the spouse, creating an independent, "one-flesh" partnership.
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Key Meaning and Components:
  • Leave: Separating from parents as the primary family unit to establish a new, autonomous household.
  • Cleave: Tightly bonding to the spouse, derived from the Hebrew word dāḇaq (meaning to stick, adhere, or cling closely).
  • Priority Shift: Placing the spouse's needs above parents, siblings, and extended family.
  • Commitment: Forming a secure, unified team through emotional, physical, and financial oneness.
 
Key Meaning and Components
PHOTO: Key Meaning and Components:
Leave: Separating from parents as the primary family unit to establish a new, autonomous household.
Cleave: Tightly bonding to the spouse, derived from the Hebrew word dāḇaq (meaning to stick, adhere, or cling closely).
Priority Shift: Placing the spouse's needs above parents, siblings, and extended family.
Commitment: Forming a secure, unified team through emotional, physical, and financial oneness. 
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Usage Examples & Scenarios:
  • Setting Boundaries: Making decisions together as a couple before informing parents, ensuring the spouse is not undermined by in-laws.
  • Financial Independence: Managing finances, debt, and spending independent of parental assistance.
  • Holiday Prioritization: Choosing to spend holidays together as a new family unit rather than automatically defaulting to the family of origin.
  • Emotional Loyalty: Supporting the spouse first during conflict, rather than reverting to siding with parents.
 
Usage Examples & Scenarios
PHOTO: Usage Examples & Scenarios:
Setting Boundaries: Making decisions together as a couple before informing parents, ensuring the spouse is not undermined by in-laws.
Financial Independence: Managing finances, debt, and spending independent of parental assistance.
Holiday Prioritization: Choosing to spend holidays together as a new family unit rather than automatically defaulting to the family of origin.
Emotional Loyalty: Supporting the spouse first during conflict, rather than reverting to siding with parents.
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Synonyms for Leave and Cleave:
Leave: Detach, depart, separate, establish independence.
Cleave: Adhere, cling, unite, bond, hold fast, attach.


Common Misconceptions:
"Leave and cleave" does not mean abandoning, cutting off, or disrespecting parents, but rather reordering the relationship to ensure the marriage is the top human priority.


 Common Misconceptions
PHOTO: Common Misconceptions:
"Leave and cleave" does not mean abandoning, cutting off, or disrespecting parents, but rather reordering the relationship to ensure the marriage is the top human priority. 
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If you are married, how do you and your spouse practise "leaving and cleaving" (Genesis 2:24 KJV) in your marriage?

In Chapter 2 of "In The Beginning: Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis", Robert M. Solomon explains that "leaving and cleaving" (Genesis 2:24) is about a new priority. It means a couple puts their relationship with each other above all other human relationships, including their parents.


 In Chapter 2 of 'In The Beginning: Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis', Robert M. Solomon explains that 'leaving and cleaving' (Genesis 2:24) is about a new priority.
PHOTO: In Chapter 2 of "In The Beginning: Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis", Robert M. Solomon explains that "leaving and cleaving" (Genesis 2:24) is about a new priority. It means a couple puts their relationship with each other above all other human relationships, including their parents.
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Here is how a couple can "leave and cleave" in simple Singapore English:

1. "Leave" — Moving out and making own decisions
"Leave" doesn’t mean you don't love your parents anymore. It means your spouse is now your #1.
  • Decide together: When you have big problems or want to buy something expensive, you talk to your spouse first. Don't always run back to your parents to ask for permission like a kid.
  • New home, new rules: Even if you live near your parents or visit them for Sunday dinner, the "final say" for your own family stays between you and your spouse.
 
1. 'Leave' — Moving out and making own decisions
PHOTO: 1. "Leave" — Moving out and making own decisions
"Leave" doesn’t mean you don't love your parents anymore. It means your spouse is now your #1.
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2. "Cleave" — Stick together like glue
"Cleave" means to be super loyal and "joined together".
  • Protect each other: If someone—even your own sibling or parent—says something bad about your spouse, you must stand up for your spouse. Don't let others "anyhow" say things that hurt your marriage.
  • Sharing everything: You become "one flesh". This means sharing your feelings, your money, and your dreams. No more "my money" and "your money" only; it's "our money."
 
2. 'Cleave' — Stick together like glue
PHOTO: 2. "Cleave" — Stick together like glue
"Cleave" means to be super loyal and "joined together".
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3. Making it work in SG
In Singapore, we are very close to our families. But "leaving and cleaving" helps to prevent "mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law" drama. When the husband and wife are united, the whole family becomes more stable because the marriage foundation is strong.


 3. Making it work in SG
PHOTO: 3. Making it work in SG
In Singapore, we are very close to our families. But "leaving and cleaving" helps to prevent "mother-in-law vs daughter-in-law" drama. When the husband and wife are united, the whole family becomes more stable because the marriage foundation is strong.
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Why It Matters
Couples who fail to leave and cleave often face "Saas-Bahu" (Hindi word for mother-in-law (saas) vs. daughter-in-law (bahu)) style conflicts or find themselves feeling betrayed when a spouse values a parent's opinion over theirs. Counselors often note that the inability to establish this independence is a frequent root cause of marital discord and divorce. 

While the principle demands a change in priority, it does not mean abandoning or disrespecting parents; the biblical mandate to "honor your father and mother" remains. It simply transitions from a relationship of obedience (do what I say) to one of honoring (respect from heart).
 

 Why It Matters
PHOTO: Why It Matters
Couples who fail to leave and cleave often face "Saas-Bahu" (Hindi word for mother-in-law (saas) vs. daughter-in-law (bahu)) style conflicts or find themselves feeling betrayed when a spouse values a parent's opinion over theirs. Counselors often note that the inability to establish this independence is a frequent root cause of marital discord and divorce. 
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Key Takeaways in Singapore Context
  • Obey can be without honor: You can follow instructions, but still talk back or feel angry inside. That is not honor. 
  • True honor includes obedience: If you truly respect your parents, you will naturally listen to them. 
  • Honoring is forever: Even after you move out or your parents are very old, you still "honor" them by looking after them (filial piety), even if you don't need to "obey" them every day like a child. 
  • When to stop obeying? If parents ask you to do something wrong (e.g., break law or do something unethical), you don't have to obey, but you can still honor them by refusing politely. 
  • Filial Piety: In our local context, honoring is closely linked to filial piety. It means protecting your parents' dignity, providing for their needs, and ensuring they are valued in society.
  
  True honor includes obedience
PHOTO: True honor includes obedience: If you truly respect your parents, you will naturally listen to them. 
Honoring is forever: Even after you move out or your parents are very old, you still "honor" them by looking after them (filial piety), even if you don't need to "obey" them every day like a child.
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Biblical Distinction Between Obedience and Honor in Ephesians 6
In Ephesians 6:1-3, obedience is the temporary, situational action of following parental instructions while under their authority, while honor is a permanent, heart-level attitude of respect and care lasting throughout life. Obedience applies primarily to children, whereas honoring parents applies to all, regardless of age.
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 Biblical Distinction Between Obedience and Honor in Ephesians 6
PHOTO: Biblical Distinction Between Obedience and Honor in Ephesians 6
In Ephesians 6:1-3, obedience is the temporary, situational action of following parental instructions while under their authority, while honor is a permanent, heart-level attitude of respect and care lasting throughout life. Obedience applies primarily to children, whereas honoring parents applies to all, regardless of age.
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 Dear Lord,
PHOTO: "Dear Lord, we pray that we understand and accept 'leaving and cleaving' requires new priority for married couples. May couples puts their relationship with each other above all other human relationships, including their parents.

While compiling to the demands for change in priority, may we not abandon or disrespect our parents; the biblical mandate to 'honor your father and mother' remains. We pray that we adapt to the transitions from a relationship of obedience to one of honoring.

Through Lord Jesus Christ we pray. Amen."
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Reflection - How do married couples practise 'leaving and cleaving'
Source (book): "In The Beginning", Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis, Chapter 2, "A Garden and a Marriage (Genesis 2:4-25)", Question 2, "How do married couples practise 'leaving and cleaving'", Page 16.
By Robert M. Solomon, Bishop of the Methodist Church in Singapore from 2000 - 2012


Footnotes



"Faithful to the end", A Preacher's Exposition of 2 Timothy, @ 2014 by Robert M. Solomon

'Faithful to the end', A Preacher's Exposition of 2 Timothy, @ 2014 by Robert M. Solomon<br>
Reflection - Faithful to the end (Links)
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2017/06/reflection-faithful-to-end-links.html


"Finding rest for the soul" Responding to Jesus' Invitation in Matthew 11:28-29, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Finding rest for the soul (Links)
Reflection - Finding rest for the soul (Links)
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2018/10/reflection-finding-rest-for-soul-links.html


"God in Pursuit" Lessons from the Book of Jonah, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

'Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART I-III, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART I-III, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/08/reflection-god-in-pursuit-links-part-i.html


"God in Pursuit" Lessons from the Book of Jonah, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

'Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART IV, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART IV, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/08/reflection-god-in-pursuit-links-part-iv.html 


"Songs of Christmas", The Stories and Significance of 20 Well-Loved Carols, © 2018 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Songs of Christmas (Links), posted on Friday, 24 April 2020
Reflection - Songs of Christmas (Links), posted on Friday, 24 April 2020
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/04/reflection-songs-of-christmas-links.html
 

"Growing Old Gracefully", Following Jesus to the End, © 2019 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Growing Old Gracefully, Part I - III (Links), posted on Wednesday, 09 December 2020
Reflection - Growing Old Gracefully, Part I - III (Links), posted on Wednesday, 09 December 2020
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/12/reflection-growing-old-gracefully-part.html
 

Reflection - Growing Old Gracefully, Part IV - V (Links), posted on Thursday, 22 April 2021
Reflection - Growing Old Gracefully, Part IV - V (Links), posted on Thursday, 22 April 2021
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/12/reflection-growing-old-gracefully-part_9.html
 

"Teach Us to Number Our Days", © 2008 by David Roper

Reflection - Number Our Days, Chapter 1 - 40 (Links), posted on Tuesday, 16 November 2021
Reflection - Number Our Days, Chapter 1 - 40 (Links), posted on Tuesday, 16 November 2021
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2021/11/reflection-number-our-days-chapter-1-40.html
 
 
"Teach Us to Number Our Days", © 2008 by David Roper
 
Reflection - Number Our Days, Chapter 41 - 64 (Links), posted on Wednesday, 16 March 2022
Reflection - Number Our Days, Chapter 41 - 64 (Links), posted on Wednesday, 16 March 2022
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2022/03/reflection-number-our-days-chapter-41.html
 
 
"He Walks with Me - Devotions for Your Caregiving Journey with God",  © 2018 by Our Daily Bread Ministries, Shelly Beach

 Reflection - He Walks with Me (Links), posted on Tuesday, 16 August 2022Reflection - He Walks with Me (Links), posted on Tuesday, 16 August 2022
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2022/08/reflection-he-walks-with-me-links.html
 

"Classic Gem: Timeless Devotions from Our Daily Bread Authors", Copyright © 2021 by Our Daily Bread Ministries

Reflection - Classic Gem, Chapter 1 - 45 (Links), posted on 03 April 2023
Reflection - Classic Gem, Chapter 1 - 45 (Links), posted on 03 April 2023
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2023/04/reflection-classic-gem-chapter-1-45.html

 
"Classic Gem: Timeless Devotions from Our Daily Bread Authors", Copyright © 2021 by Our Daily Bread Ministries

Reflection - Classic Gem, Chapter 46 - 90 (Links), posted on
Reflection - Classic Gem, Chapter 46 - 90 (Links), posted on Tuesday, 24 October 2023
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2023/10/reflection-classic-gem-chapter-46-90.html
 
 
"Making All Things New", 52 Reflections to Challenge the Way You Live, Copyright @ 2022 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Making All Things New, Chapter 1 - 28 (Links), posted on Saturday, 04 August 2024
Reflection - Making All Things New, Chapter 1 - 28 (Links), posted on Saturday, 04 August 2024
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2024/08/reflection-making-all-things-new.html
 
 
"Making All Things New", 52 Reflections to Challenge the Way You Live, Copyright @ 2022 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Making All Things New, Chapter 29 - 52 (Links), posted on
Reflection - Making All Things New, Chapter 29 - 52 (Links), posted on Saturday, 15 March 2025
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2025/03/reflection-making-all-things-new.html
 
 
"My Soul Thirsts For God", Reflections on the Psalms from Our Daily Bread, Copyright @ 2009 by Discovery House Publishers

Reflection - My Soul Thirsts For God, Verse 1 - 46 (Links)
Reflection - My Soul Thirsts For God, Verse 1 - 46 (Links) on Monday, 25 August 2025
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2025/08/reflection-my-soul-thirsts-for-god.html
 
 
"My Soul Thirsts For God", Reflections on the Psalms from Our Daily Bread, Copyright @ 2009 by Discovery House Publishers

Reflection - My Soul Thirsts For God, Verse 47 - 92 (Links) on Tuesday, 27 January 2026
Reflection - My Soul Thirsts For God, Verse 47 - 92 (Links) on Tuesday, 27 January 2026
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2026/01/reflection-my-soul-thirsts-for-god.html
 


Reference
[1] From "In The Beginning", Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis, Copyright @ 2009 by Robert M. Solomon, Chapter 2, "A Garden and a Marriage (Genesis 2:4-25)", Question 2, "How do married couples practise 'leaving and cleaving'", Page 16.

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