Tuesday, September 29, 2020

SIA stewardess of 14 years makes career switch to nursing

Source Website: https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/sia-stewardess-14-years-makes-career-switch-nursing
By Charmaine Ng, The Straits Times, 23 September 2020 at 11:22 am


Ms Zabrina Kng believes her experience as part of a cabin crew has been helpful in her new role.
PHOTO: Ms Zabrina Kng believes her experience as part of a cabin crew has been helpful in her new role.
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SINGAPORE - After 14 years of flying with Singapore Airlines as a cabin crew member, Ms Zabrina Kng decided it was time for a career switch - to nursing.

Her new career would allow her to pursue her life-long interest in healthcare and have more time to spend with her ageing parents.

She learnt about the Workforce Singapore's Professional Conversion Programme (PCP) for Registered Nurses (Diploma) in 2017, and set her sights on applying for the two-year programme.

But after finding out that she had missed the intake for the year, she continued working as a cabin crew member for another year so that she could save up for the programme.


After finding out that she had missed the intake for the year, she continued working as a cabin crew member for another year so that she could save up for the programme.
PHOTO: After finding out that she had missed the intake for the year, she continued working as a cabin crew member for another year so that she could save up for the programme.
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By the time her contract with SIA ended in 2018, she had saved ＄12,000, which she used to supplement the monthly allowance of around ＄2,000 she received from the two-year PCP.

But for Ms Kng, 34, it was still an adjustment financially.

"Initially when I first started, I really had to adjust my lifestyle. I told myself that since I've made this switch to nursing, I needed to persevere," she added.


Initially when I first started, I really had to adjust my lifestyle. I told myself that since I've made this switch to nursing, I needed to persevere,
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Another challenge she faced was having to return to school in her 30s. "It was an accelerated diploma which would normally take three years to complete. So the learning curve was very steep for me," she said.

She graduated from the programme in April and began working for Woodlands Health Campus, although she is temporarily stationed at Tan Tock Seng Hospital.

She believes her experience as part of a cabin crew has been helpful in her new role.


She graduated from the programme (Workforce Singapore's Professional Conversion Programme (PCP) for Registered Nurses Diploma) in April and began working for Woodlands Health Campus, although she is temporarily stationed at Tan Tock Seng Hospital.
PHOTO: She graduated from the programme (Workforce Singapore's Professional Conversion Programme (PCP) for Registered Nurses Diploma) in April and began working for Woodlands Health Campus, although she is temporarily stationed at Tan Tock Seng Hospital.
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"There are many similarities between being a cabin crew member and a nurse, like communication skills, empathy and being able to work well under pressure.

"These are all soft skills that I've gained in my years as cabin crew, and I think are plus points when you are up against someone who is a fresh graduate," she added.


There are many similarities between being a cabin crew member and a nurse, like ommunication skills, empathy and being able to work well under pressure.
PHOTO: "There are many similarities between being a cabin crew member and a nurse, like communication skills, empathy and being able to work well under pressure.
"These are all soft skills that I've gained in my years as cabin crew, and I think are plus points when you are up against someone who is a fresh graduate," Ms Zabrina Kng added.
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Nurses have difficult moment too.
PHOTO: Nurses have difficult moment too. Even registered nurses sometimes find themselves feeling weak. They may even feel defeated, as if they are absolute failure at what they are trying to do. They may feel like they just don’t have what it takes to give their patients what they deserve.

It’s in these moments of occasional, but understandable discouragement over a very difficult vocation that we must remind ourselves of the solid truths about ourselves and our profession that can be found in God’s word.

While this is a hard thing to admit, we find it’s actually easier when we can remember that the outcome of our patient isn’t really in our hands. We can do the best we can do, but in the end we have to surrender our performance into the Lord’s hands. And when we do that we can actually catch our breath. He’s in control. [2]

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." (Isaiah 41:10).
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By Charmaine Ng, The Straits Times, 23 September 2020 at 11:22 am
This article was first published in The Straits Times.



Other stories

Nursing their way to a mid-career switch, posted on Monday, 21 January 2019
Nursing their way to a mid-career switch, posted on Monday, 21 January 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/01/nursing-their-way-to-mid-career-switch.html


First nurse in Alexandra Hospital who can prescribe medicines, posted on Tuesday, 08 January 2019
First nurse in Alexandra Hospital who can prescribe medicines, posted on Tuesday, 08 January 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/01/first-nurse-in-alexandra-hospital-who.html


Tan Tock Seng Hospital employees walk towards better health
Tan Tock Seng Hospital employees walk towards better health, posted on Friday, 26 October 2018
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2018/10/tan-tock-seng-hospital-employees-walk.html


US nurse discovers colleague doctor
US nurse discovers colleague doctor, posted on Sunday, 09 September 2018
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2018/09/us-nurse-discovers-colleague-doctor.html


Overcoming obstacles to become nurses
Overcoming obstacles to become nurses, posted on Tuesday, 01 August 2017
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2017/08/overcoming-obstacles-to-become-nurses.html



Reference
[1] Charmaine Ng, The Straits Times, SIA stewardess of 14 years makes career switch to nursing, posted on 23 September 2020 at 11:22 am, https://www.asiaone.com/singapore/sia-stewardess-14-years-makes-career-switch-nursing

[2] Meet Brie, brieann.rn@gmail.com, 5 Biblical Truths to Encourage Nurses, posted on 13 July 2015, https://briegowen.com/2015/07/13/5-biblical-truths-to-encourage-nurses/


Links


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Safer, faster and more comfortable Covid-19 testing with SwabBot

Source Website: https://www.tnp.sg/news/singapore/safer-faster-and-more-comfortable-covid-19-testing-swabbot
By Shabana Begum, The New Paper, 22 September 2020 at 06:00 am


(Above, from left) The team behind the bot comprises Dr Rena Dharmawan, Dr Paul Tern, Ms Hee Jia Yun and Dr Luke Tay.
PHOTO: (Above, from left) The team behind the bot comprises Dr Rena Dharmawan, Dr Paul Tern, Ms Hee Jia Yun and Dr Luke Tay.
Process by Singapore robot is also more comfortable than manual test, say doctors.
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A robot that carries out nasal swabbing to diagnose Covid-19 has been developed by clinicians who say the automated procedure is safe, faster and more comfortable compared with manual swab tests.

Although other countries have developed similar robots, the clinicians said this bot, called SwabBot, is the first that allows patients to fully control the swab process so they are more comfortable.

A patient sits in front of the robot while holding on to the handhold and latches his nostril onto the disposable nose-piece.


Dr Tay Hsien Ts’ung, Consultant, Department of Vascular Surgery, SGH, demonstrating having a test done by the SwabBot.
PHOTO: Dr Tay Hsien Ts’ung, Consultant, Department of Vascular Surgery, SGH, demonstrating having a test done by the SwabBot.
The made-in-Singapore bot allows patients to fully control the swab process for more comfort.
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After using his chin to push a button and activate the bot, the nose-piece moves slightly upwards to widen the nostril. The swab will extend and rotate safely and gently through the patient's nose to the back of the nasal cavity.

SwabBot has a built-in feature that withdraws the swab stick if there is resistance when it is moved deeper into the nasal cavity.

If the patient feels uncomfortable at any point, he can stop the process by moving his head away from the robot.

The process takes 20 seconds while a manual swab test can take twice as long. At the end of the procedure, a medical worker opens the machine to remove and store the swab stick.


The made-in-Singapore SwabBot allows patients to fully control the swab process so they are more comfortable.
PHOTO: The made-in-Singapore SwabBot allows patients to fully control the swab process so they are more comfortable. It is also faster than manual swab tests.
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The machine, which is 35cm by 40cm, and 49cm high, was developed by clinicians from the National Cancer Centre Singapore (NCCS) and Singapore General Hospital (SGH), in collaboration with medical robotics company Biobot Surgical.

"Our team felt that we had to find a better way to swab patients to reduce the risk of exposure of Covid-19 to our healthcare workers, especially when patients sneeze or cough during the swabbing process," said principal investigator Rena Dharmawan, associate consultant, head and neck surgery, at NCCS and SGH's division of surgery and surgical oncology.


Left to right: Clinical Associate Prof Tan Ngian Chye, Senior Consultant, Department of Head and Neck Surgery, Division of Surgery and Surgical Oncology, SGH & NCCS.
PHOTO: Left to right: Clinical Associate Prof Tan Ngian Chye, Senior Consultant, Department of Head and Neck Surgery, Division of Surgery and Surgical Oncology, SGH & NCCS. Dr Rena Dharmawan, Associate Consultant, Department of Head and Neck Surgery, Division of Surgery and Surgical Oncology, SGH & NCCS, Clinical Entrepreneur-in-Residence, Centre of Technology & Development (CTeD), Duke-NUS Medical School. Dr Siti Radhiziah Binte Sudirman, Consultant, Department of Otorhinolaryngology - Head & Neck Surgery, SGH. Dr Tay Hsien Ts’ung, Consultant, Department of Vascular Surgery, SGH. Ms Hee Jia Yun, Senior Product Engineer, Biobot Surgical Pte Ltd. Mr Kee Yew Hwee, Chief Technology Officer, Biobot Surgical Pte Ltd. Mr Sim Kok Hwee, CEO, Biobot Surgical Pte Ltd and ZIG Ventures. Seated: Dr Paul Tern, Resident, Department of Internal Medicine, SGH.
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SwabBot retains the same gentle touch and precision as surgeons who perform very delicate procedures, said Dr Luke Tay, consultant at SGH's department of vascular surgery, who is one of the project's team members.

To date, a total of 85 patients from SGH and Bright Vision Hospital as well as volunteers have participated in the ongoing clinical trial that compares SwabBot against manual swabbing.


To date, a total of 85 patients from SGH and Bright Vision Hospital as well as volunteers have participated in the ongoing clinical trial that compares SwabBot against manual swabbing.
PHOTO: To date, a total of 85 patients from SGH and Bright Vision Hospital as well as volunteers have participated in the ongoing clinical trial that compares SwabBot against manual swabbing.
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EQUALLY OR LESS PAINFUL
All of the participants said the procedure with the robot was either equally or less painful compared with getting a manual swab, said Dr Dharmawan.

Volunteer Marco Lizwan, 25, a second-year medical student at Duke-NUS Medical School, said he was less worried when he was swabbed by the robot.


All of the participants said the procedure with the robot was either equally or less painful compared with getting a manual swab, said Dr Dharmawan.
PHOTO: All of the participants said the procedure with the robot was either equally or less painful compared with getting a manual swab, said Dr Dharmawan.
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He said: "I found the robot more comfortable because you can (turn it on) whenever you are ready. So things are within your control. I was worried when I did the manual one because I was wondering if the swabber's hand will be shaky."

SingHealth and Biobot Surgical have filed a patent for SwabBot's technology. Biobot is also working to get the robot CE marked for it to be commercialised globally.


SingHealth and Biobot Surgical have filed a patent for SwabBot's technology. Biobot is also working to get the robot CE marked for it to be commercialised globally.
PHOTO: SingHealth and Biobot Surgical have filed a patent for SwabBot's technology. Biobot is also working to get the robot CE marked for it to be commercialised globally.
Photo: Caroline Chia
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PHOTO: The media talks a lot about how many cases there are or how many more people have died but they rarely say how many people have recovered. . . . This pandemic is causing a lot of problems worldwide especially for small and independently owned businesses.

So please if you do go out, just keep a thought for those on the front lines helping in hospitals etc or those businesses that are struggling. Everyone is in the same boat and a little good deed to someone goes a long way (Matthew 5:16). Let's be encouraged by Christians and churches who have been encouraging frontline workers, assisting and ministering to those in quarantine or need, and giving out medical supplies.

Remember to wash your hands, avoid touching your face and use tissues when coughing or sneezing.
Stay safe and healthy! 😊❤️ - Craftea

God declares plagues over nations as an act of divine judgment for disobedience - yet we have not returned to Him (Amos 4:10). God can also use a pandemic to fulfill His purpose of redemption, teach us obedience and gratitude, and even stir up a revival. Difficult times will mark the coming of the last days of earth (Matthew 24:4-8). [2] While COVID-19 does not fulfill Bible prophecy, other diseases will get worse in the days ahead. The fourth horseman of the Apocalypse will cause one-fourth of the world to die by “sword and famine and disease and wild animals” (Revelation 6:8). [3]

So what should we do? Isaiah lived in a day when he saw the nation of Israel to his north totally destroyed, as well as 46 cities of his own land of Judah. His advice is appropriate for our own time as well. “Seek the LORD while you can find him. Call on him now while he is near” (Isaiah 55:6). [3]

And yet, what is so beautiful about God’s Word is His promise to love us and provide for us, regardless of how dire our situation is:
“Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,” says the LORD, who has compassion on you (Isaiah 54:10). [2]
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Reference
[1] Shabana Begum, The New Paper, Safer, faster and more comfortable Covid-19 testing with SwabBot, posted on 22 September 2020 at 06:00 am, https://www.tnp.sg/news/singapore/safer-faster-and-more-comfortable-covid-19-testing-swabbot

[2] Madeline Kalu, Crosswalk.com Contributing Writer, Does COVID-19 Fulfill Biblical Plague Prophecies?, https://www.christianity.com/wiki/bible/does-covid-19-fulfill-biblical-plague-prophecies.html

[3] Rev. Dr. Rick Griffith, What in the World is God Doing in COVID-19?, https://www.sbc.edu.sg/what-in-the-world-is-god-doing-in-covid-19/


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Monday, September 28, 2020

Reflection - Spiritual Habits - Finding Community

Source (book): "Growing Old Gracefully", Following Jesus to the End, PART II: SPIRITUAL HABITS, Chapter 15, "Finding Community", Question 1, Page 101.
By Robert M. Solomon, Bishop of the Methodist Church in Singapore from 2000 - 2012


Make a list of communities you are a part of - putting the most significant first.
PHOTO: Make a list of communities you are a part of - putting the most significant first.
Family
Park Connector Network (PCN) walking and running group
Relatives
Neighbourhood
Workplace
Hospitals
Polyclinics

Which of these communities provide you with a strong sense of identity and satisfaction?
Family
Family identity is a central expression of our values. ... Family identity can create not only a sense of belonging, it can also give families a mode for affirming values, providing kids a buffer against peer pressure, and clarifying goals for children. The children's improvement in their learning skills and abilities is the adult's most satisfactory moments. 孩子们的成长是家长们最大的满足感。(Hái zi men de chéng zhǎng shì jiā zhǎng men zuì dà de mǎn zú gǎn) - The growth of children is the greatest satisfaction of parents.

Strong, happy families create a sense of wellbeing within the family and in each family member. Wellbeing includes a person's physical, mental, emotional and social health. Strong, happy families encourage and support each other to be optimistic, hopeful and to strive together to achieve individually and as a family. Even the constant nagging from my sister can be a form of security from the Covid-19 pandemic. Because there is that somebody who is concern about our wellbeing, as we battled the invisible virus.

The culture, language, and religion a person is surrounded by are three very important parts of their identity. These elements change the outlook people have on the world and the lives they lead every day. Their opinions, views, practices, and self-image are all affected by these ingredients. Having God in our lives makes the difference, especially when crisis arrive at our door steps. The loving Father-figure instil unconditional confidence to overcome the problems successfully.

Identity may be acquired indirectly from parents, peers, and other role models. Children come to define themselves in terms of how they think their parents see them. ... Psychologists assume that identity formation is a matter of “finding oneself” by matching one's talents and potential with available social roles. We are constantly on the learning path. As we age, being an elderly can also learn what the younger generation like best - like how to use the handphone. Armed with some of their skills, elderly too can communicate and have fun with them through the use of technology, like 'WhatApps'. These efforts can change the way they see us.

So how to strengthen the bonds within your family? Be kind to one another. Kids learn through experiences and modelling. Show acts of kindness in everyday life like opening the door for someone, putting away dishes without being asked or by hugging mom or dad when he or she gets home from work. Simple act like accompanying our siblings to their hospital appointment can build bonds quietly. Their tests and doctor consultations often require long agonising wait together. But that make us understand how much we cherish each other. Our bonding and identity is form through how we protect and care for each other lovingly.

Family satisfaction therefore refers to perceptions and buliding of family quality such as solidarity, happiness, and overall relational well-being. We need them more than ever as the Covid-19 Coronavirus threaten to break us apart. In the face of life-terminating attack, let's combine forces with whatever we have beside us, and defend the little which we have with the help of our Lord Jesus Christ. More than one million people have lost their life, and 33.3 million cases were reported, and counting.


Park Connector Network (PCN) walking and running group
Birds of the same feather flock together. We elderly too, can meet together to do some activities. Early morning walks and exercises along designated route not only improve and maintain our physical health but also our social health. After some morning exercise activities with the elderly uncles and aunties, we discover the wonders of having relationship with them, who once were just strangers along the Park Connector Network (PCN).

We share daily News and tips on living as a better person. They carry umbrella-walking sticks which become useful during a sudden rain. They too carry Smart-phones which allows sharing of more illustrative information. Real-time information is available to elderly, even in remote areas at the wee hours of the morning. The benefits are by no means, tiny.

Such daily relationship among elderly can led to more life satisfaction. National Association of Social Workers says "Friendship identity do emerged as the strongest predictor—stronger than income or marital status—when predicting well-being."


Why do you think this is the case?
We are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere. As individuals, we shrivel up when we do not experience an adequate sense of belonging. From the beginning of our lives, we are made to belong to a family, though people have varying experiences of this. Then we belong to a neighbourhood, a school, a workplace, a church, and so on. We need the often "disturbing, upsetting intrusions of others" that "enable them to become agents of God's troubling grace in our pilgrimage." They also become "God's agents of comfort, encouragement and support as we wrestle with the call to come out of the [false] security of our incompleteness into the wholeness God has for us in Christ." We need community to grow into maturity and fullness.

We belong to different groups of people and different communities. As we age, some of them may become less important, and the bonds between us and them may loosen. For instance, while in school, friendships with classmates are strong, but most will fade into memories later in life, though a few may endure into old age. Some colleagues may also remain part of our lives, even after retirement. There will also be family members, friends, and church members who remain an integral part of our community, even as we grow old. These are important to us, and we must keep connected with them, for their good and ours.
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Make a list of communities you are a part of - putting the most significant first. Which of these communities provide you with a strong sense of identity and satisfaction? Why do you think this is the case?

Make a list of communities you are a part of - putting the most significant first.
Family
Park Connector Network (PCN) walking and running group
Relatives
Neighbourhood
Workplace
Hospitals
Polyclinics


We are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere.
PHOTO: We are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere. As individuals, we shrivel up when we do not experience an adequate sense of belonging. From the beginning of our lives, we are made to belong to a family, though people have varying experiences of this. Then we belong to a neighbourhood, a school, a workplace, a church, and so on.
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Which of these communities provide you with a strong sense of identity and satisfaction?
Family
Family identity is a central expression of our values. ... Family identity can create not only a sense of belonging, it can also give families a mode for affirming values, providing kids a buffer against peer pressure, and clarifying goals for children. The children's improvement in their learning skills and abilities is the adult's most satisfactory moments. 孩子们的成长是家长们最大的满足感。(Hái zi men de chéng zhǎng shì jiā zhǎng men zuì dà de mǎn zú gǎn) - The growth of children is the greatest satisfaction of parents.


Family identity is a central expression of our values.
PHOTO: Family identity is a central expression of our values. ... Family identity can create not only a sense of belonging, it can also give families a mode for affirming values.
孩子们的成长是家长们最大的满足感。(Hái zi men de chéng zhǎng shì jiā zhǎng men zuì dà de mǎn zú gǎn) - The growth of children is the greatest satisfaction of parents.
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Strong, happy families create a sense of wellbeing within the family and in each family member. Wellbeing includes a person's physical, mental, emotional and social health. Strong, happy families encourage and support each other to be optimistic, hopeful and to strive together to achieve individually and as a family. Even the constant nagging from my sister can be a form of security from the Covid-19 pandemic. Because there is that somebody who is concern about our wellbeing, as we battled the invisible virus.


Strong, happy families create a sense of wellbeing within the family and in each family member.
PHOTO: Strong, happy families create a sense of wellbeing within the family and in each family member. They encourage and support each other to be optimistic, hopeful and to strive together to achieve individually and as a family.
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The culture, language, and religion a person is surrounded by are three very important parts of their identity. These elements change the outlook people have on the world and the lives they lead every day. Their opinions, views, practices, and self-image are all affected by these ingredients. Having God in our lives makes the difference, especially when crisis arrive at our door steps. The loving Father-figure instil unconditional confidence to overcome the problems successfully.


The culture, language, and religion a person is surrounded by are three very important parts of their identity.
PHOTO: The culture, language, and religion a person is surrounded by are three very important parts of their identity. These elements change the outlook people have on the world and the lives they lead every day. Having God in our lives makes the difference, especially when crisis arrive at our door steps. The loving Father-figure instil unconditional confidence to overcome the problems successfully.
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Identity may be acquired indirectly from parents, peers, and other role models. Children come to define themselves in terms of how they think their parents see them. ... Psychologists assume that identity formation is a matter of “finding oneself” by matching one's talents and potential with available social roles. We are constantly on the learning path. As we age, being an elderly can also learn what the younger generation like best - like how to use the handphone. Armed with some of their skills, elderly too can communicate and have fun with them through the use of technology, like 'WhatApps'. These efforts can change the way they see us.


Psychologists assume that identity formation is a matter of 'finding oneself' by matching one's talents and potential with available social roles.
PHOTO: Psychologists assume that identity formation is a matter of “finding oneself” by matching one's talents and potential with available social roles. Identity may be acquired indirectly from parents, peers, and other role models. Children come to define themselves in terms of how they think their parents see them.
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So how to strengthen the bonds within your family? Be kind to one another. Kids learn through experiences and modelling. Show acts of kindness in everyday life like opening the door for someone, putting away dishes without being asked or by hugging mom or dad when he or she gets home from work. Simple act like accompanying our siblings to their hospital appointment can build bonds quietly. Their tests and doctor consultations often require long agonising wait together. But that make us understand how much we cherish each other. Our bonding and identity is form through how we protect and care for each other lovingly.


So how to strengthen the bonds within your family?
PHOTO: So how to strengthen the bonds within your family? Be kind to one another. Kids learn through experiences and modelling. Show acts of kindness in everyday life like opening the door for someone, putting away dishes without being asked or by hugging mom or dad when he or she gets home from work. Understand how much we cherish each other. Our bonding and identity is form through how we protect and care for each other lovingly.
Artwork by Tracy Lizotte - Lean On Me
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Family satisfaction therefore refers to perceptions and buliding of family quality such as solidarity, happiness, and overall relational well-being. We need them more than ever as the Covid-19 Coronavirus threaten to break us apart. In the face of life-terminating attack, let's combine forces with whatever we have beside us, and defend the little which we have with the help of our Lord Jesus Christ. More than one million people have lost their life, and 33.3 million cases were reported, and counting.


Perceptions and buliding of family quality such as solidarity, happiness, and overall relational well-being contributes to family identity and satisfaction.
PHOTO: Perceptions and buliding of family quality such as solidarity, happiness, and overall relational well-being contributes to family identity and satisfaction.
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Park Connector Network (PCN) walking and running group
Birds of the same feather flock together. We elderly too, can meet together to do some activities. Early morning walks and exercises along designated route not only improve and maintain our physical health but also our social health. After some morning exercise activities with the elderly uncles and aunties, we discover the wonders of having relationship with them, who once were just strangers along the Park Connector Network (PCN).


Early morning walks and exercises along designated route not only improve and maintain our physical health but also our social health.
PHOTO: Early morning walks and exercises along designated route not only improve and maintain our physical health but also our social health. After some morning exercise activities with the elderly uncles and aunties, we discover the wonders of having relationship with them, who once were just strangers along the Park Connector Network (PCN).
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We share daily News and tips on living as a better person. They carry umbrella-walking sticks which become useful during a sudden rain. They too carry Smart-phones which allows sharing of more illustrative information. Real-time information is available to elderly, even in remote areas at the wee hours of the morning. The benefits are by no means, tiny.


They carry umbrella-walking sticks which become useful during a sudden rain.
PHOTO: They carry umbrella-walking sticks which become useful during a sudden rain. They too carry Smart-phones which allows sharing of more illustrative information. Real-time information is available to elderly, even in remote areas at the wee hours of the morning. The benefits are by no means, tiny.
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Such daily relationship among elderly can led to more life satisfaction. National Association of Social Workers says "Friendship identity do emerged as the strongest predictor—stronger than income or marital status—when predicting well-being." [2]


Such daily relationship among elderly can led to more life satisfaction.
PHOTO: Such daily relationship among elderly can led to more life satisfaction. National Association of Social Workers says "Friendship identity do emerged as the strongest predictor—stronger than income or marital status—when predicting well-being." [2]
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Why do you think this is the case? [1]
We are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere. As individuals, we shrivel up when we do not experience an adequate sense of belonging. From the beginning of our lives, we are made to belong to a family, though people have varying experiences of this. Then we belong to a neighbourhood, a school, a workplace, a church, and so on. We need the often "disturbing, upsetting intrusions of others" that "enable them to become agents of God's troubling grace in our pilgrimage." They also become "God's agents of comfort, encouragement and support as we wrestle with the call to come out of the [false] security of our incompleteness into the wholeness God has for us in Christ." [57] We need community to grow into maturity and fullness.


We are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere.
PHOTO: We are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere. As individuals, we shrivel up when we do not experience an adequate sense of belonging. From the beginning of our lives, we are made to belong to a family, though people have varying experiences of this. Then we belong to a neighbourhood, a school, a workplace, and a church.
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In his old age, the apostle Paul was still writing about his various acquaintances and fellow-workers (2 Timothy 4). He still longed for company, and asked his protégé Timothy to hurry to Rome to meet him, and to bring Mark with him. Some years earlier, Paul wrote to the Romans a letter that was theologically rich, but ended with warm, personal references to various people he knew (Romans 16). There are a number of groups that can be identified in Paul's wide-ranging greetings.


In his old age, the apostle Paul was still writing about his various acquaintances and fellow-workers (2 Timothy 4).
PHOTO: In his old age, the apostle Paul was still writing about his various acquaintances and fellow-workers (2 Timothy 4). He still longed for company, and asked his protégé Timothy to hurry to Rome to meet him, and to bring Mark with him. There are a number of groups that can be identified in Paul's wide-ranging greetings.
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First, there were Paul's relatives. We don't know much about Paul's family background. It is likely that he was neither married nor had children of his own. Nevertheless he had relatives. In this letter, he mentions a few of them. He mentions Andronicus and Junias (Romans 16:7 NRSV). They had been converted earlier than Paul, were apostles, and had been in prison with him. They had shared many experiences together, which had undoubtedly strengthened their bonds.

Herodian, another relative, is also mentioned (Romans 16:11 NRSV). Not much is known about this person, but Paul kept in touch and was concerned for him. Later, Paul mentions other relatives in Corinth: Jason and Sosipater (Romans 16:21 NRSV).


There were Paul's relatives.
PHOTO: There were Paul's relatives. We don't know much about Paul's family background. It is likely that he was neither married nor had children of his own. Nevertheless he had relatives. In this letter, he mentions a few of them. He mentions Andronicus and Junias (Romans 16:7 NRSV). They had been converted earlier than Paul, were apostles, and had been in prison with him. They had shared many experiences together, which had undoubtedly strengthened their bonds.
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Second, Paul mentions his friends. Chief among them were Priscilla and Aquila, a wonderful and respected couple in the early church (Romans 16:3). They had a strong partnership with Paul in his mission to the Gentiles (See Acts 18:2; 1 Corinthians 16:19; 2 Timothy 4:19). They must have spent some time in Rome - but the Emperor Claudius banished the Jews from Rome in AD 52. Paul wrote Romans in about AD 58, so they must have made their way back to Rome by then. Before their return to Rome, Priscilla and Aquila lived in Corinth. They were the couple who first opened their new home to Paul when he arrived there.


Paul mentions his friends.
PHOTO: Paul mentions his friends. Chief among them were Priscilla and Aquila, a wonderful and respected couple in the early church (Romans 16:3). They had a strong partnership with Paul in his mission to the Gentiles (See Acts 18:2; 1 Corinthians 16:19; 2 Timothy 4:19). They must have spent some time in Rome. Before their return to Rome, Priscilla and Aquila lived in Corinth. They were the couple who first opened their new home to Paul when he arrived there.
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This was also the couple Paul went into business with as tent-makers. They later travelled with Paul to Ephesus, where they settled (Acts 18:18-19). Wherever we see Priscilla and Aquila, they have an open home, used for Christian fellowships, worship, teaching, and instruction. The same couple opened their homes to such famous guests as Apollos and instructed him further in his faith (see Acts 18:24-26). They held church meetings in their homes in Corinth, Ephesus, and Rome! Paul expresses his gratitude and fondness. They had risked their lives for him. That's how much they loved one another.


Priscilla and Aquila were also the couple Paul went into business with as tent-makers.
PHOTO: Priscilla and Aquila were also the couple Paul went into business with as tent-makers. They later travelled with Paul to Ephesus, where they settled (Acts 18:18-19). Wherever we see Priscilla and Aquila, they have an open home, used for Christian fellowships, worship, teaching, and instruction. They held church meetings in their homes in Corinth, Ephesus, and Rome! Paul expresses his gratitude and fondness. They had risked their lives for him. That's how much they loved one another.
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Other fellow-workers were Urbanus (Romans 16:9) and those he mentions as having worked very hard: Mary (Romans 16:6), Apelles (Romans 16:10), Tryphena, and Tryphosa (Romans 16:12). They were all appreciated by Paul and no doubt shared deep Christian love towards one another. Later, Paul mentions his protégé Timothy (Romans 16:21).


Other fellow-workers were Urbanus (Romans 16:9) and those he mentions as having worked very hard
PHOTO: Other fellow-workers were Urbanus (Romans 16:9) and those he mentions as having worked very hard: Mary (Romans 16:6), Apelles (Romans 16:10), Tryphena, and Tryphosa (Romans 16:12). They were all appreciated by Paul and no doubt shared deep Christian love towards one another.
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Third, Paul mentions his "dear friends" (the Greek word agapétos means beloved, well-loved, or dearly loved). Epenetus (Romans 16:5) was Paul's first convert in Achaia or Asia (depending on manuscripts) and they enjoyed a special relationship. Persis (Romans 16:12) was another dear friend. These were people who knew Paul well. There was obviously a deep friendship between them. Rufus' mother was considered a mother to Paul (Romans 16:13), again reflecting friendship along familial lines. The quality of relationship is best described by Paul when he mentions Ampliatus as "my dear friend in the Lord" (Romans 16:8).


Paul mentions his 'dear friends' (the Greek word agapétos means beloved, well-loved, or dearly loved).
PHOTO: Paul mentions his "dear friends" (the Greek word agapétos means beloved, well-loved, or dearly loved). These were people who knew Paul well. There was obviously a deep friendship between them.
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Fourth, there were others that Paul considered as having a special relationship with him. He remembers them fondly: Aristobulus (Romans 16:10), Narcissus (Romans 16:11), Rufus (Romans 16:13), and many others in verses 14 and 15. Later, he also mentions Gaius and Erastus in Corinth (Romans 16:23).


There were others that Paul considered as having a special relationship with him.
PHOTO: There were others that Paul considered as having a special relationship with him. He remembers them fondly: Aristobulus (Romans 16:10), Narcissus (Romans 16:11), Rufus (Romans 16:13), and many others in verses 14 and 15. Later, he also mentions Gaius and Erastus in Corinth (Romans 16:23). 
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All these people had warm, loving relationship with Paul. Many, no doubt, were mentored by him; others, perhaps, were soulmates, and yet others, good friends.

We belong to different groups of people and different communities. As we age, some of them may become less important, and the bonds between us and them may loosen. For instance, while in school, friendships with classmates are strong, but most will fade into memories later in life, though a few may endure into old age. Some colleagues may also remain part of our lives, even after retirement. There will also be family members, friends, and church members who remain an integral part of our community, even as we grow old. These are important to us, and we must keep connected with them, for their good and ours.


We belong to different groups of people and different communities.
PHOTO: We belong to different groups of people and different communities. As we age, some of them may become less important, and the bonds between us and them may loosen. Some colleagues may also remain part of our lives, even after retirement. There will also be family members, friends, and church members who remain an integral part of our community, even as we grow old. These are important to us, and we must keep connected with them, for their good and ours.
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Dear Lord
Dear Lord
Dear Lord
PHOTO: "Dear Lord, belonging to my family provide me with a strong sense of identity and satisfaction. Family identity can create not only a sense of belonging, it can also give families a mode for affirming values, providing kids a buffer against peer pressure, and clarifying goals for children. The children's improvement in their learning skills and abilities is the adult's most satisfactory moments.

We pray for strong and happy families so as to create a sense of wellbeing within the family and in each family member. Wellbeing includes a person's physical, mental, emotional and social health. Strong, happy families encourage and support each other to be optimistic, hopeful and to strive together to achieve individually and as a family. Thank You for providing me with caring and loving siblings with their grown up children, who may often nag at me but are those who are really concern about my safety and wellbeing, as we battled the invisible Covid-19 virus.

Having God in our lives makes the difference, especially when crisis arrive at our door steps. The loving Father-figure instill unconditional confidence to overcome the problems successfully. We are surrounded by our culture, language, and religion which are the very important parts of their identity. They change our outlook on the world and the lives we lead every day. Our opinions, views, practices, and self-image are all affected by them. We pray for Your protection from all dangers, guidance, correction, care, provision, and love. Not only for us but also for everybody in the whole world.

Our identity may be acquired indirectly from our parents, peers, and other role models. Children come to define themselves in terms of how they think their parents see them. Psychologists assume that identity formation is a matter of ‘finding oneself’ by matching one's talents and potential with available social roles. Please help us to be constantly on the learning path. As we age, being an elderly to learn not only from our older generations but also from our younger generations, so that we may not become irrelevant. Also these efforts can change the way they see us.

Help us to strengthen the bonds within our family by being kind to one another. Help us to show acts of kindness in our everyday life. Simple act like accompanying our siblings for their hospital appointment make us understand how much we cherish each other. May our bonding and identity be formed through how we protect and care for each other lovingly. Help us to acquire family satisfaction through building family quality such as solidarity, happiness, and overall relational well-being.

We pray that we keep on discovering the wonders of having relationship with the elderly uncles and aunties along the Park Connector Network (PCN), as we join together to do our early morning walking and exercises. Help us with our early morning walks and exercises along designated route not only to improve and maintain our physical health but also our social health. We pray for those wee hours activities in the remote area to continue maintaining our relationships and well-beings leading to more life satisfaction.

Lord, we are made for relationships and community, and that is why we all need to belong to a group somewhere. Help us not to become lonely individuals, because we may shrivel up when we do not experience an adequate sense of belonging. Since the beginning of time You have created us to belong to a family, then we belong to a neighbourhood, a school, a workplace, a church, and so on.

We need the often ‘disturbing, upsetting intrusions of others’ that ‘enable us to become agents of God's troubling grace in our pilgrimage.’ We also become ‘God's agents of comfort, encouragement and support as we wrestle with the call to come out of the [false] security of our incompleteness into the wholeness God has for us in Christ.’ We need the community You created for us to grow into maturity and fullness.

Just as Paul required his relatives, friends, fellow-workers, and others who had special relationship with him, we too need those people who have warm, loving relationship with us. We may belong to different groups of people and different communities. And as we age, some of them may become less important, and the bonds between us and them may loosen. While in school, friendships with classmates are strong, but unfortunately most will fade into memories later in life. Thank You that, a few may remain in contact until into old age. We pray that some of our colleagues may also remain as part of our lives, even after retirement.

Help us to have family members, friends, church members, and others who remain an integral part of our community, even as we grow old. These are important to us, and we must keep connected with them, for their good and ours.

Through Lord Jesus Christ we pray. Amen!"
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Reflection - Spiritual Habits - Finding Community
Source (book): "Growing Old Gracefully", Following Jesus to the End, PART II: SPIRITUAL HABITS, Chapter 15, "Finding Community", Question 1, Page 101.
By Robert M. Solomon, Bishop of the Methodist Church in Singapore from 2000 - 2012
 





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"Faithful to the end", A Preacher's Exposition of 2 Timothy, @ 2014 by Robert M. Solomon

'Faithful to the end', A Preacher's Exposition of 2 Timothy, @ 2014 by Robert M. Solomon<br>
Reflection - Faithful to the end (Links)
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"Finding rest for the soul" Responding to Jesus' Invitation in Matthew 11:28-29, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Finding rest for the soul (Links)
Reflection - Finding rest for the soul (Links)
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2018/10/reflection-finding-rest-for-soul-links.html


"God in Pursuit" Lessons from the Book of Jonah, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

'Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART I-III, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART I-III, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/08/reflection-god-in-pursuit-links-part-i.html


"God in Pursuit" Lessons from the Book of Jonah, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

'Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART IV, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART IV, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/08/reflection-god-in-pursuit-links-part-iv.html 


"Songs of Christmas", The Stories and Significance of 20 Well-Loved Carols, © 2018 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Songs of Christmas (Links), posted on Friday, 24 April 2020
Reflection - Songs of Christmas (Links), posted on Friday, 24 April 2020
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/04/reflection-songs-of-christmas-links.html
 


Reference
[1] From "Growing Old Gracefully", Following Jesus to the End, Copyright © 2019 by Robert M. Solomon, ISBN 978-981-14-1836-5, PART II: SPIRITUAL HABITS, Chapter 15, "Finding Community", Page 95-100.

[2] National Association of Social Workers (NASW)), Friendship and Social Support: The Importance of Role Identity to Aging Adults, https://academic.oup.com/sw/article-abstract/44/6/522/1886250?redirectedFrom=PDF

[57] M. Robert Mulholland Jr., Invitation to a Journey: A Road Map for Spiritual Formation (Downers Grove: Inter-Varsity Press, 1993), 101.


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