Saturday, September 12, 2020

From her love life to her tattoos, Carrie Tan is breaking the mould

Source Website: https://www.tnp.sg/news/singapore/her-love-life-her-tattoos-carrie-tan-breaking-mould
By Adeline Tan, tanpya@sph.com.sg, The New Paper, 28 July 2020 at 06:00 am


Carrie Tan Hui Min says her uniqueness helps her relate to people who are not conventional and understand their callenges.
PHOTO: Carrie Tan Hui Min says her uniqueness helps her relate to people who are not conventional and understand their callenges.
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The MP-elect for Nee Soon GRC talks about women in politics and how her uniqueness is also her asset.

Newly elected Member of Parliament Carrie Tan is not your regular politician.

Sporting her signature salt and pepper hair at the age of 38, she stood out among the 27 fresh faces the People's Action Party unveiled for the recent general election.

Ms Tan was an MP-elect for Nee Soon group representation constituency, replacing Dr Lee Bee Wah, and she was also one of the record number of 10 new female candidates the PAP fielded this year.


Ms Tan was an MP-elect for Nee Soon group representation constituency, replacing Dr Lee Bee Wah, and she was also one of the record number of 10 new female candidates the PAP fielded this year.
PHOTO: Ms Tan was an MP-elect for Nee Soon group representation constituency, replacing Dr Lee Bee Wah, and she was also one of the record number of 10 new female candidates the PAP fielded this year.
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This year will see 27 elected female MPs entering Parliament - the highest ever.

Ms Tan told The New Paper: "I think it is encouraging and (having more female voices) in Parliament will hopefully help us push forward more policies that can be considered holistically from the female's perspective."

She joined politics to champion causes not just for women, but also to speak up on issues such as caregiving support and support for the sandwich generation.

Ms Tan is the founder of charity group Daughters Of Tomorrow, which she started in 2013 after ending an abusive relationship. She is now dating a divorcee and enjoys spending time with his two young children.


A volunteer trip to India planted the seed of an idea in Carrie Tan to start Daughters of Tomorrow, an organisation that helps women from low-income familes in Singapore.
PHOTO: A volunteer trip to India planted the seed of an idea in Carrie Tan to start Daughters of Tomorrow, an organisation that helps women from low-income familes in Singapore.
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"I am really not very conventional, you know, (such as with my) relationship situation. I wasn't sure whether the party or the people would take to someone like this."

Some seniors in her GRC are also grappling with the idea that their new MP has tattoos - one behind her ear and another on her wrist.

"It is a bit confusing for them," she said with a laugh.


Some seniors in her GRC are also grappling with the idea that their new MP has tattoos - one behind her ear and another on her wrist.
PHOTO: "I am really not very conventional, you know, (such as with my) relationship situation. I wasn't sure whether the party or the people would take to someone like this."
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"But this is who I am and it doesn't detract from what I wish to do and can do for the community. I guess it is just another way of breaking the mould and helping people be more open to diverse people coming in to serve."

In fact, Ms Tan sees this uniqueness as one of her strengths.
 

Ms Tan sees this uniqueness as one of her strengths.
PHOTO: Ms Tan sees this uniqueness as one of her strengths.
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"You will be able to relate to those who also may not be so conventional... and you can understand their challenges. I think this is the part I can bring into politics (to help people)."

Ms Tan said she gets comments all the time about her natural grey hair, which first appeared as a streak when she was 31.

Initially, she admitted feeling self-conscious, but she soon accepted it as the grey became more prominent.

Within the party, she said the female MPs have an informal peer support group where they talk about a range of things, from how to prevent wardrobe malfunctions in their all-white ensembles (group) to the impact of politics on family.


Ms Tan said she gets comments all the time about her natural grey hair, which first appeared as a streak when she was 31.
PHOTO: Ms Tan said she gets comments all the time about her natural grey hair, which first appeared as a streak when she was 31. Within the party, she said the female MPs have an informal peer support group where they talk about a range of things, from how to prevent wardrobe malfunctions in their all-white ensembles (group) to the impact of politics on family.
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Speaking out on the struggles female MPs face can encourage more women to join politics, she said.

"If there is a better acceptance of (leaders) to be more human (and vulnerable), it might ease the pressure on all politicians and leaders, and not just women."


What would you do to make the world a better place for others struggling with distress, disappointment or disability?
PHOTO: What would you do to make the world a better place for others struggling with distress, disappointment or disability?
"If there is a better acceptance of (leaders) to be more human (and vulnerable), it might ease the pressure on all politicians and leaders, and not just women."
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I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people
PHOTO: "I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people — for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. This is good, and pleases God our Savior, who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth." (1 Timothy 2: 1-4).
PHOTO: God engraved us in His hands
The same goes for if you feel insecure about the way you look. It is natural for people to feel insecure about their looks, especially in our social media crazy world. But be encouraged. You are God’s good creation. Beauty standards in the world keep changing but God’s love for you will not. The Bible says of God’s people in Isaiah 49:16: “I have engraved you on the palms of my hands.” Talking about tattoos! Seek your confidence in God’s approval and the love of your friends. That is healthier for your heart than getting a tattoo! [2]
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Whatever your motivation, you have freedom in Christ to make wise choices.
PHOTO: Whatever your motivation, you have freedom in Christ to make wise choices. Use the sense God has given you, keeping in mind that your body is the dwelling place of the Holy Spirit, so honor God with your body! (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). [2]
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Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established.
Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established.
PHOTO: "Let everyone be subject to the governing authorities, for there is no authority except that which God has established. The authorities that exist have been established by God. Consequently, whoever rebels against the authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and those who do so will bring judgment on themselves. For rulers hold no terror for those who do right, but for those who do wrong. Do you want to be free from fear of the one in authority? Then do what is right and you will be commended." (Romans 13: 1-3).

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By Adeline Tan, tanpya@sph.com.sg, The New Paper, 28 July 2020 at 06:00 am
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Reference
[1] Adeline Tan, tanpya@sph.com.sg, The New Paper, From her love life to her tattoos, Carrie Tan is breaking the mould, posted on 28 July 2020 at 06:00 am, https://www.tnp.sg/news/singapore/her-love-life-her-tattoos-carrie-tan-breaking-mould

[2] Biblword, Are tattoos allowed for Christians?, posted on 14 September 2019, https://www.biblword.net/are-tattoos-allowed-for-christians/?gclid=CjwKCAjw4_H6BRALEiwAvgfzq1R4rZxRYbXR5gqujXtaQ3N2zDdpVxcz7L1mO87XXbS7K0oyFOWa_xoCW60QAvD_BwE


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