Wednesday, August 16, 2023

Ya Hui (雅慧 Yǎ huì) recalls private tutor touching her inappropriately



Ya Hui (雅慧 Yǎ huì) shared that a private tutor touched her inappropriately when she was in secondary school.
PHOTO: Ya Hui (雅慧 Yǎ huì) shared that a private tutor touched her inappropriately when she was in secondary school.
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Growing up in Singapore, many of us have had private tutors hired by our parents during our school days.

Back then, our greatest fears involving them were likely that the tuition wouldn't help us improve our grades, but local actress Ya Hui (雅慧 Yǎ huì) had a very different concern when a male tutor she had in secondary school touched her inappropriately, masking it as encouragement.

"Whenever I answered a question correctly, he would touch me here," the 36-year-old revealed in an interview with 8world, gesturing to the side of her breast.


 The 130-episode New Media Channel 8 long drama 'My One and Only' will be broadcast on mewatch first (24 July 2023) and premiered on Channel 8 on the 27th.
PHOTO: The 130-episode New Media Channel 8 long drama "My One and Only" will be broadcast on mewatch first (24 July 2023) and premiered on Channel 8 on the 27th.
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PHOTO: This is Ya Hui's first drama after leaving Mediacorp in February this year. In the play, she played the role of "Shen Baoyou", who turned from a director of a production company to a real estate broker in the company of her sister Zheng Huiyu.
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Ya Hui added that it had happened "quite a few times" and she told her mum then: "Why does he have to touch me there? Because I feel extremely uncomfortable."

Her mother then replaced the tutor.

She also discussed how, early on in her career, she did not "dare to do anything" when male clients got too touchy with her.


 Ya Hui added that it had happened 'quite a few times' and she told her mum then
PHOTO: Ya Hui added that it had happened "quite a few times" and she told her mum then: "Why does he have to touch me there? Because I feel extremely uncomfortable."
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"At big events, the men used to place their hands on my shoulders or on my waist during photo-taking sessions, which was extremely uncomfortable for me," Ya Hui explained. "If a man respects a woman, he wouldn't do that unless they were already close friends or colleagues.

"But these were clients you'd only meet once, and what they did would make you uncomfortable."

Now that she's 15 years into her showbiz career, Ya Hui has ways to avoid such untoward contact.


At big events, the men used to place their hands on my shoulders or on my waist during photo-taking sessions, which was extremely uncomfortable for mePHOTO: "At big events, the men used to place their hands on my shoulders or on my waist during photo-taking sessions, which was extremely uncomfortable for me," Ya Hui explained. "If a man respects a woman, he wouldn't do that unless they were already close friends or colleagues."
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"Nowadays, if someone touches my shoulders, I will be very obvious and shrug them off while saying, 'Sorry I need to adjust my clothes' and slip away," she said.

She also had advice to give to others facing similar situations.

"You must say it if you know something is wrong or someone is making you feel uncomfortable," she said, telling others to say directly: "I beg your pardon, but can you not put [your hands] here?"


 You must say it if you know something is wrong or someone is making you feel uncomfortable,
PHOTO: "You must say it if you know something is wrong or someone is making you feel uncomfortable," she said, telling others to say directly: "I beg your pardon, but can you not put [your hands] here?"
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"Because if someone has the intention to take advantage of you, they will feel uncomfortable [if you say it]," she added. "But if you don't say anything at all, you may give them the chance to take advantage of you."

Ya Hui also urged people not to "suffer in silence and wait for someone to speak up for you".

"You should rely on yourself," she said.


 Because if someone has the intention to take advantage of you, they will feel uncomfortable [if you say it],
PHOTO: "Because if someone has the intention to take advantage of you, they will feel uncomfortable [if you say it]," she added. "But if you don't say anything at all, you may give them the chance to take advantage of you."
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 Ya Hui also urged people not to 'suffer in silence and wait for someone to speak up for you'.
PHOTO: Growing up in Singapore, many of us have had private tutors hired by our parents during our school days.
Back then, our greatest fears involving them were likely that the tuition wouldn't help us improve our grades, but local actress Ya Hui (雅慧 Yǎ huì) had a very different concern when a male tutor she had in secondary school touched her inappropriately, masking it as encouragement.
Photoshop from picture posted by CathleenTarawhiti on 24 February 2015 - Witch 10
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 Sexy legendary poster of Madoka from Wiboonkij's comic book
PHOTO: Sexy legendary poster of Madoka from Wiboonkij's comic book. The original picture comes from the work of Takada Akemi, a famous painter in the late 80s, early 90s ... Thirty years ago.
This road is sour live-action version.
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By Drima Chakraborty, drimac@asiaone.com, Asiaone, 24 July 2023 at 5:47 pm
For more original AsiaOne articles, visit here.


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Reference
[1] Drima Chakraborty, drimac@asiaone.com, 'I told my mum I was very uncomfortable': Ya Hui recalls private tutor touching her inappropriately when she was a teen, posted on 24 July 2023 at 5:47 pm, https://www.asiaone.com/entertainment/i-told-my-mum-i-was-very-uncomfortable-ya-hui-recalls-private-tutor-touching-her-inappropriately-teen


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