Sunday, October 20, 2013

为什么给我幸福的不是你 (wèi shén me gěi wǒ xìng fú de bú shì nǐ) 。。。。。- Why providing me with happiness is not you?


梦里丁香【情感美文】  (Mèng lǐ Dīngxiāng [Qínggǎn měiwén]) - Dream of aromatic dried flower buds [Emotional essay]
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By Grace Zhao, Jun 3, 2012:
The happiest times within my life are those periods that I am been totally single. The definition of "totally single" is that you do not have someone that you are interested in in your heart.

Within those time, you are so free that you do nothing but enjoy yourself. However, those periods would never last for long, because soon enough you will meet someone and get interested in. Why? Because we are human. And being totally single means your heart is available.

Admit it, when a person's heart is available, it means that it is always ready for a new relationship, and it would be always seeking no matter whether you want it or not.

So that the notion that no love equal to no worry is wrong. No love means that you will run into a new situation that totally unpredictable.....no love means that you may have to face the big trouble later in the future.....



梦里丁香【情感美文】  (Mèng lǐ Dīngxiāng [Qínggǎn měiwén]) - Dream of aromatic dried flower buds [Emotional essay]
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By Bharath Kumar Kunjibettu, May 28, 2012:
Personally I have reached both the highest point of happiness and sadness while being in love ... Maybe its because of release of some hormones within the body..

Its because the emotional bonding that you develop with that person that makes you forget all your worries for some time.

At the same time, on the contrary when you realize the very same person cannot be with you anymore, it shatters one's dreams and brings them to the peak of sadness...



梦里丁香【情感美文】  (Mèng lǐ Dīngxiāng [Qínggǎn měiwén]) - Dream of aromatic dried flower buds [Emotional essay]
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By Adriaan Braam, May 28, 2012:
The lowest point of sadness: It is heaven on earth when things turns out well. But if something steps in the way, or does not work out, it can feel like hell.

However, we should not love someone in order for us to become happy. The essence of love is by loving others more than oneself, wishing to be one with them, and devoting oneself to their happiness.

Once they are happy we can feel their happiness as ours.



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By Debra Smith, May 22, 2012:
It seems to me that I am truly happiest when I have regained what I had lost or gained something I never fully believed that I could obtain. For example; I feel pretty happy just being alive because it was seriously threatened a while ago.

I feel happy when I can walk without a walker - that would not have pleased me 6 months ago.

I also remember being incomparably happy when I got my scholarship for my MA (maybe because no one else in my family had ever had the opportunity to get a degree.)



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By Robert Winner, May 20, 2012:
The statement "while being in love" should be changed to "Knowing that you are loved". Have you ever read the story of the ten cow wife? On a small island a plain woman was wooed by a farmer who promised the father 10 cows for the hand of his daughter. A dowry size that is unheard of.

His display for the hand of the daughter transformed her in the minds of all the island and made her feel so good she literally transformed into the person she was perceived to be by all others.

When I come home from a hard day, the love of the "home" and all who reside there lifts me up and provides me with happiness I cannot find anywhere else.



梦里丁香【情感美文】  (Mèng lǐ Dīngxiāng [Qínggǎn měiwén]) - Dream of aromatic dried flower buds [Emotional essay]
 

By Zuzanna Górna, Warsaw, Poland
Many people believe that love gives you most happiness you can ever get in your life.

But you will never be calm and free from worries if you're in love.


Translated by MDBG Chinese-English Dictionary, www.mdbg.net, and Google Translate



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