Showing posts with label Rejection. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Rejection. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 16, 2015

Take rejection well

Source Website: http://women.asiaone.com/women/relationships/time-i-asked-guy-out-told-9-singaporean-women
By Thea Lee, LunchClick, Thursday, 26 November 2015


It was hard to not take it personally, but ultimately, I managed to come to the same conclusion - that we were better off as friends.
PHOTO: "It was hard to not take it personally, but ultimately, I managed to come to the same conclusion - that we were better off as friends."
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In our rather conservative society, having a woman make the first move is highly unorthodox and almost unheard of. Women who ask guys out push the frontier of our dating conventions here in Singapore.

"Honestly, I feel like most guys in Singapore feel that it's their duty to ask girls out. Therefore, if he hasn't asked you out after a long time, he probably doesn't have feelings for you. I've tried asking this guy I had crushed on for two years out once, but things didn't work out.

"It was hard to not take it personally, but ultimately, I managed to come to the same conclusion - that we were better off as friends." (Melanie, 22, Student)


The friendzone exists for girls too
PHOTO: The friendzone exists for girls too
I tried to ask my very attractive guy friend out once, and he laughed in my face, before realising I was serious. 
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"Speaking as someone who's been there and done that, I have to say that asking a friend out is the worst thing you can do. I tried to ask my very attractive guy friend out once, and he laughed in my face, before realising I was serious.

"Things got awkward between us for quite a while, and all our mutual friends found out about it. Of course, they tried to defuse the tension but ended up making it even more awkward because of how contrived it all was." (Jennifer, 20, Student)


I asked this guy out once, and he rejected me immediately. Tests show that it takes a further 20 encounters for someone to change their opinion of you. One of your acquaintances could be objectively much prettier than you.
PHOTO: I asked this guy out once, and he rejected me immediately. Tests show that it takes a further 20 encounters for someone to change their opinion of you. One of your acquaintances could be objectively much prettier than you.
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"I asked this guy out once, and he rejected me immediately, stating that he has too much on his plate to get involved in a relationship, but started dating one of our acquaintances (who is objectively much prettier than me) soon after." (Clarissa, 22, Student)


There will always be things ladies do that send guys fleeing in the opposite direction - things that are utterly intolerable; things you might find in How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, for instance.
PHOTO: There will always be things ladies do that send guys fleeing in the opposite direction - things that are utterly intolerable; things you might find in How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, for instance.
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You could be the cutest girl in class or the coolest cat at work. But there will always be things ladies do that send guys fleeing in the opposite direction - things that are utterly intolerable; things you might find in How To Lose A Guy In 10 Days, for instance.


You have to have treated the person well and cultivated mutual feelings of attraction and appreciation in the past. Someone won't want to go out with you just because you're asking.
PHOTO: You have to have treated the person well and cultivated mutual feelings of attraction and appreciation in the past. Someone won't want to go out with you just because you're asking.
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"Someone won't want to go out with you just because you're asking - you have to have treated the person well and cultivated mutual feelings of attraction and appreciation in the past. Don't surprise the guy with the question - I started regularly contacting the guy once I realised I was attracted to him.

"I also scheduled group meetups involving him, and paid special attention to what he was saying. A few months into that, I asked him out, and he said yes." (Andrea, 28, Marketing Executive)


Asking someone out can be really nerve-wrecking, but it's better to have tried and failed than to consign yourself to a life of 'what-if's. The results may surprise you!
PHOTO: Asking someone out can be really nerve-wrecking, but it's better to have tried and failed than to consign yourself to a life of 'what-if's. The results may surprise you!
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Asking someone out can be really nerve-wrecking, but it's better to have tried and failed than to consign yourself to a life of 'what-if's. Take a leaf out of one of these girls' books and try asking the guy you've had your eye on out! The results may surprise you!

By Thea Lee, LunchClick, Thursday, 26 November 2015



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Saturday, March 29, 2014

How To Deal With Rejection

Source Website: http://thedailylove.com/how-to-deal-with-rejection/
By Christine Hassler, July 6, 2011


The biggest damage happens when we decide that going out there and pursuing our happiness and dreams is too painful and not worth our while.  That’s when we get stuck, convincing ourselves that we are better off being small, alone and safe.  When we are in that place, we can’t even feel the pain anymore.
PHOTO: The biggest damage happens when we decide that going out there and pursuing our happiness and dreams is too painful and not worth our while.  That’s when we get stuck, convincing ourselves that we are better off being small, alone and safe.  When we are in that place, we can’t even feel the pain anymore.

Rejection can actually make you a stronger wiser and more powerful person if you only deal with it appropriately.

Picture from post by Katherine Bouglai (Don’t Let Fear Of Rejection Stop You From Going Out There!) on May 25, 2011

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Rejection. It hurts. No matter what the size or severity, rejection is one of the biggest challenges to self-love.

From not getting a call back after what you thought was a great first date, to not getting the job you thought you were perfect for, rejection triggers a dangerous dose of self-doubt. And it happens to all of us.  Often it is during the twenty-something years that one experiences a big rejection for the first time, such as getting dumped or being laid off. So it’s the perfect time to learn how to receive “perceived” rejection (and I will explain why I use the word “perceived”) in a way that brings you more peace rather than more pain.


Rejection triggers a dangerous dose of self-doubt especially when one experiences a big rejection for the first time, such as getting dumped or being laid off.
PHOTO: Rejection triggers a dangerous dose of self-doubt especially when one experiences a big rejection for the first time, such as getting dumped or being laid off.
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Perhaps you’ve heard the phrase, “Rejection is God’s protection.” I believe this to be true, but like most clichés when recited to us in the midst of a big blow, it may sound more annoying than immediately comforting. First it’s important to just surrender to the fact that rejection does not feel good. A lot of self-help advice is geared toward feeling better quickly and sometimes that is not always possible. Accept the fact that you may feel hurt and angry. Give yourself permission to express those feelings in a healthy way such as journaling, speaking to a coach/counselor/mentor, taking it out in a kickboxing class or having a good cry.

Resist the immediate temptation to pump yourself full of positive thinking or pontificate as to why this is happening. You are a human being and it’s natural if feeling rejected stings a bit. Feel your feelings without judgment or analysis so they can move up and out rather than suppressing them. Sometimes we experience things that feel hurtful because our soul is yearning to learn how to be compassionate toward ourselves and break patterns of feeling punished or victimized.


We are a human being and it’s natural if feeling rejected stings a bit.
PHOTO: We are a human being and it’s natural if feeling rejected stings a bit. Feel our feelings without judgment or analysis so they can move up and out rather than suppressing them. Sometimes we experience things that feel hurtful because our soul is yearning to learn how to be compassionate toward ourselves and break patterns of feeling punished or victimized.
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Which brings me to the next important step in dealing with rejection: be compassionate with yourself. If you just got dumped, fired, left out or turned down, please do not add to your suffering by being hard on yourself.

Going into self-blame and judgment continues to feed the rejection because now you are rejecting yourself! Be kind to yourself with your thoughts and actions. Witness your self-talk and redirect it when you begin to downward spiral into negativity. One of the most effective and compassionate things you can say to yourself is, “I did the best I could.” And believe it! Trust me, if you could have done better, you would have.


When just got dumped, fired, left out or turned down, be kind to ourself with our thoughts and actions.
PHOTO: When just got dumped, fired, left out or turned down, be kind to ourself with our thoughts and actions. Say to ourself, “I did the best I could.”
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Next, do not take the rejection personally. Speaking from experience, I know this is extremely difficult. In my late twenties when my fiancé broke up with me six months before our wedding, I felt incredibly rejected and made it mean that I was a terrible, broken person unworthy of love. Personalizing the rejection made the heartache ten times harder. Luckily, I had a great coach who taught me the importance of not taking it personally.

I learned how to be compassionate with myself and ask, “What am I learning from this and how can I love myself while I go through it?” I was able to see that the break-up was an outward manifestation of what I was doing internally to myself: I was withholding my own self-love from myself by being consistently hard on myself. My relationship with me was full of rejection, so no wonder it ended up happening in the main relationship I was in with another person.


Be compassionate with myself
PHOTO: Be compassionate with myself and ask, “What am I learning from this and how can I love myself while I go through it?”
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Furthermore, I totally understood how hard it was for my ex to be around a person who was not happy with herself. He was not necessarily rejecting me; he was doing the most self-honoring thing for himself and did me a HUGE favor. Granted, at the time it did not necessarily feel that way.

Trust in the delayed blessings that come with the initial burn of a rejection.


Trust in the delayed blessings that come with the initial burn of a rejection.
PHOTO: Trust in the delayed blessings that come with the initial burn of a rejection.
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Finally, understand and remind yourself that rejection often has nothing to do with you! People often have their own reasons for why they don’t behave in a way that you would categorize as accepting you or giving you what you want. And certain situations that trigger feelings of rejection are often based on so many external factors that, once again, have zero to do with anything you did or did not do. This is why I say that external rejection is “perceived” rather than being real.

The truth is that no one and nothing can truly reject you. The only way to truly be rejected is when you deny yourself of your own love, forgiveness and acceptance. Like I mentioned earlier, we often draw in external events that feel like perceived rejection because our Higher Self is mirroring what we are doing inside ourselves.


The truth is that no one and nothing can truly reject you. The only way to truly be rejected is when you deny yourself of your own love, forgiveness and acceptance.
PHOTO: The truth is that no one and nothing can truly reject you. The only way to truly be rejected is when you deny yourself of your own love, forgiveness and acceptance.
Painting body Art by Duong Quoc Dinh and Muc Tau - Model: Hani Nguyen
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You belong. You are loved. You are accepted. You are worthy. You are enough. You are doing the best you can. But don’t just take my words for it; reject any resistance and accept these truths for yourself! 

Love,
Christine
Christine Hassler is a certifed life and quarterlife coach. To visit her website click here.
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Christine Hassler
PHOTO: You are doing the best you can. Reject any resistance and accept these truths for yourself! 
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When just got dumped, fired, left out or turned down, be kind to ourself with our thoughts and actions.
PHOTO: When just got dumped, fired, left out or turned down, be kind to ourself with our thoughts and actions. Say to ourself, “I did the best I could.”
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Friday, February 14, 2014

If you're single, check these out

My Paper, Monday, February 10, 2014, Page A14, Lifestyle, Valentine's Day Guide
From http://epaper.mypaper.sg/emnd/fvxen/fvxp/fvxpress.php?param=2014-02-10
Source Website: http://mypaper.sg/lifestyle/if-youre-single-check-these-out-20140210
By Benson Ang, The New Paper, mypaper, myp@sph.com.sg, Published on Feb 10, 2014


For thousands of years, across all cultures, living as a family unit has been the building block of society. In the past, food, shelter and safety depended on interconnectedness. Exile was considered the most severe form of punishment, second only to death. As our culture has become increasingly individualistic, living alone has become a desirable luxury for singletons.
PHOTO: For thousands of years, across all cultures, living as a family unit has been the building block of society. In the past, food, shelter and safety depended on interconnectedness. Exile was considered the most severe form of punishment, second only to death. As our culture has become increasingly individualistic, living alone has become a desirable luxury for singletons.
By Simone Paget, Special to QMI Agency on Friday, October 25, 2013 7:00:00 EDT AM 
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SINGLES don't have to be holed up at home on Friday. You can go out without getting swamped by couples.

There are a number of events aimed at the Valentine's Day Dateless.

Lucha Loco's Anti-Valentine's Day Party
This party promises to be a blast for all singles and lovers of Mexican food.
If you are feeling particularly vengeful, you can take a photo of your ex and attach it to a pinata there for bashing.
With a bunch of fun games designed to get you mingling, and with a number of DJs on-site, this is the funkiest way to get through a night of enforced romance.
When: Friday, 9pm
Where: Lucha Loco, 15 Duxton Hill, Tanjong Pagar How much: Free. For more information, contact info@luchaloco.com


Singles don't have to be holed up at home on Friday. You can go out without getting swamped by couples.

PHOTO: Singles don't have to be holed up at home on Friday. You can go out without getting swamped by couples.
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Valentine Vendetta 2014
Billed as Singapore's No. 1 Valentine's Day singles party, this is the fourth Vendetta.
A combination of games and free shots should take the pressure off meeting new people.
If you're too shy, fill in some information and there will be "cupids" available to introduce you to your type.
There are a lot of prizes on offer. Best kiss wins a pair of diamond earrings.
When: Friday, 7pm
Where: New Asia, 71-72/F Equinox Complex, Swissotel The Stamford, 2 Stamford Road
How much: From $25 for online pre-sale to $45 for men at the door; tickets and bottle packages also available online at www.vday.sg


A Dream is a Wish
PHOTO: A Dream is a Wish
Hopefully the dream comes true. It is less painful this way.
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This Dream Date
If you are the sit-and-talk type, this combines Mediterranean food and mingling.
There's even a rotation programme to see that you talk to everyone and make new friends. Or at least some new friends to add to your Facebook.
When: Friday, 7pm to 9.30pm
Where: Medzs, Orchard Central #B2-01
How much: $15. Go to vivaone.com.sg for more information.
By Benson Ang, The New Paper, mypaper, myp@sph.com.sg, Published on Feb 10, 2014


Talk to someone and make new friends. Console one another, being in the same boat. It is a harsh world in the world of love.
PHOTO: Talk to someone and make new friends. Console one another, being in the same boat. It is a harsh world. It is a harsh world in the world of love.
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No. 1 Valentine's Day singles party, no gifts necessary. It is already painful enough because there is no comfort for you.
PHOTO: Combines Mediterranean food and mingling for a solo solace night. At least there is some comfort  in a time of great distress or sadness.
Posted by LovesRedRose (Fairyland), Digital Art / Photomanipulation / Fantasy; ©2011-2014 LovesRedRose - Jessica Allain art
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林淑容 (Lín shū róng) - 让我自己走 (ràng wǒ zì jǐ zǒu) - Let me leave myself
林淑容～讓我自己走（網上首播）


梁鈺晶 (Liáng yù jīng) - 让我自己走 (ràng wǒ zì jǐ zǒu) - Let me leave myself
梁鈺晶 让我自己走 [鈺鸣晶人01]

STOCK: Anastasia posing elegantly on a rock (Sitting)
PHOTO: Different environment has its own unique beauty although with the same sad heart. Try as you may, being the only one of its kind, unlike anything else, but the lingering thoughts cannot passed away completely. You are still unwanted.
Posted by refro (The Rose), Digital Art / Photomanipulation / Emotional, ©2012-2014 refro
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那个人就是我-吴钰凤
吴钰凤 (Wú yù fèng) - 那个人就是我 (nà​ gè ​rén jiù​ shì wǒ) - That person is me
STOCK: Anastasia posing elegantly on rock (Standing)
PHOTO: Aphrodite
Apparently very graceful outside but deep in the heart is heavy rainfall. Elegance has no value when you are been told that nobody wants you, especially from the one whom you thought could be your companion for the rest of your life.
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那一年， 我们默默耕耘，是时候尽苦甘来。(nà yī nián, wǒ ​men mò​ mò gēng yún, shì shí ​hou jìn kǔ ​gān lái) - That year, we silently toil, it is time to eliminate the hardship and enjoy the fruits.
PHOTO: 那一年， 我们默默耕耘，是时候苦尽甘来。(nà yī nián, wǒ ​men mò​ mò gēng yún, shì shí ​hou kǔ jìn ​gān lái) - That year, we silently toil, it is time to eliminate the hardship and enjoy the fruits. 
Or is there is change in plan?
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