Interesting Green: Reflection - How can couples show mutual respect and practice equality in being

Reflection - How can couples show mutual respect and practice equality in being
Source (book): "In The Beginning", Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis, Chapter 2, "A Garden and a Marriage (Genesis 2:4-25)", Question 1, "How can couples show mutual respect and practice equality in being", Page 15.
By Robert M. Solomon, Bishop of the Methodist Church in Singapore from 2000 - 2012

PHOTO: Why are there two accounts of creation? This question has been asked from time to time. Some have highlighted key differences between the two accounts (let's call them C₁ and C₂).⁹ For example, both the man and woman (who are unnamed) are created together in C₁, "male and female he created them" (Genesis 1:27). In contrast, Adam is created first in C₂, and God later creates Eve from one of Adam's ribs (Genesis 2:21-22).

I do not believe there are two accounts because Moses, the writer of Genesis, could not decide which one to choose. Instead, Moses may simply have recorded the two versions that had emerged as a result of these accounts being passed on by oral tradition. It is also unwise to see the two versions as competitive and contradictory. Rather, just as we read the four gospels as presenting us with a more complete testimony of Christ, the two versions provide a complementary and fuller picture of God's original creative act. In fact, some scholars see Genesis 2 and 3 as a single unit, where the second chapter sets the stage for the third.¹º

If we follow this line of reasoning, then each creation account has specific truths to convey. On the one hand, C₁ focuses on God as the One who creates, is gracious, and blesses. On the other hand, C₂ emphasises God's creation of the human race and His purposes for them. It explains that God placed Adam in a lush primeval garden full of trees and rivers. His God-given task was to work the garden and take care of it (Genesis 2:15).

God also gave Adam the freedom to eat from any of the numerous trees in the garden, except the one tree of the knowledge of good and evil, the fruit of which would have fatal consequences (Genesis 2:16-17). C₂ gives special dignity and statues to the human race and answers the psalmist's question to God, "what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?" (Psalm 8:4). We are special hybrid beings; made from the earth (dust) and also embodiments of something directly from God - His breath (Genesis 2:7).

In C₂, God also established the institution of marriage. He found Adam to be lonely for want of a fellow human being. So, He made Eve out of Adam. This was an act that shows the intimacy between the couple ("bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh", Genesis 2:23). It also reveals that the man and woman had equal status: they were both human beings created by God. The fact that the woman was created after Adam is thus not a reason to see woman as second-class human beings. God "officiated" their wedding and they became "one flesh" in a relationship (Genesis 2:24).

The union between Adam and Eve provides a symbol for the New Testament picture of the marriage between Christ and His church, where the body of Christ (Ephesians 5:21-33) is united with God in His eternal kingdom beginning in heaven with a wedding feast (Revelation 19:6-9).

The picture in C₂ is one of divine blessing and human bliss. But why was there a tree with fruits that were forbidden? One good answer provided by Christian thinkers such as Augustine is that the tree provided the couple with a choice as to whether they wanted to trust and obey Him. God did not create them to be robots programmed to love Him, for this would bot be a reflection of what true love is.

Another question that Christians struggle with is the relationship between men and women. Today, there are egalitarians (arguing that men and women are equal in every way) and complementarians (emphasising that men and women have specific roles, and these can be seen in a hierarchical way). Both these views arise from how Scripture is read and understood. In C₁, there is no difference between the man and woman and they are treated equally. In C₂, there is an order in the creation of the couple that suggests a complementarian perspective.

The apostle Paul has been criticised by some as conveying a misogynistic (strongly prejudiced against women) view (see 1 Timothy 2:9-15; 1 Corinthians 14:34-35). But Paul also wrote that in Christ, there is no male and female, "for you are all one in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:28), He argued that the socially sinful lines that divide people according to race, social class, and gender, are erased in the presence of Christ.

Was Paul therefore confused or speaking in contradictions? Perhaps Paul understood both C₁ (where Adam and Eve's equality is emphasised) and C₂ (where their complementarity is highlighted). A proper biblical view would take both views seriously with a "both-and" rather then an "either-or" perspective. That is to say that the relationship between husbands and wives should be marked by ontological (the study of being) equality (equal in being) and functionally complementary roles.

We can gain some understanding of the relationship between husbands and wives by considering the Trinity. Christians believe that the three Persons in the Trinity (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) are all equally God. At the same time, there is some sort of hierarchy within the Trinity. The Son will always be begotten of the Father, that relationship cannot be reversed. Likewise the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father and the Son.

In similar fashion, both the husband and wife are of equal worth. They each have to respect and love the other mutually, as human beings created in God's image. However, equality in being does not mean that both husbands and wives take on the same roles in marriage. In Paul's teaching, he explains that husbands are to exercise headship (understood as authority or responsibility) in the marriage. This manner of spiritual leadership in the marriage and family is not an excuse to abuse their power and dominate the family. Rather, it is to take the form of servant leadership (Mark 10:42-45; John 13:12-17), where the husband should "give himself up" for his wife and love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Wives, on their part, should then submit to their husbands (Ephesians 5:22). We will explore these ideas further in Chapter 4.

Marriage should not be a power struggle. Every Christian couple must seek to find out what is biblical marital relationship should look like in their particular circumstances. Regarding each other with mutual love and complementing the other according to the gifts and graces that God has endowed the couple is a good place to start.

How can couples show mutual respect and practise equality in being? How can they also complement each other in a way that expresses love and understanding?
In Chapter 2 of "In The Beginning", Robert M. Solomon explores the foundational design for human relationships through the creation of man and woman in Genesis 2 . He highlights that marriage is a "covenantal companionship" intended to reflect God's own relational nature.

Mutual Respect and Equality in Being

Solomon emphasizes that equality in a relationship is rooted in the shared identity of being created in the image of God. Couples can practice this by:

Recognizing Shared Essence: Acknowledging that both partners are "bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh," which signifies a fundamental oneness and equality of being.
Practicing Mutual Submission: Moving away from power struggles to a relationship where both partners bring their strengths to the table in mutual respect.
Valuing the Other's Presence: Treating companionship as an essential "antidote to loneliness" rather than taking the partner for granted.

Complementing Through Love and Understanding

To complement each other effectively, Solomon suggests that differences should be viewed as opportunities for partnership rather than points of conflict.

Acting as a "Suitable Helper": Understanding that the term "helper" (ezer) implies a partner of equal status who provides what the other lacks, creating a synergistic (united) union.
Support in Weakness: Actively lifting each other up when one is weak or straying, ensuring the relationship is a source of spiritual and emotional strength.
Nurturing "One Flesh" Unity: This involves a commitment to spiritual, emotional, and physical oneness that requires constant nourishment and protection from outside interference.
Transparent Communication: Building intimacy through openness—modeled by the biblical description of being "naked and not ashamed"—which allows for love to be expressed without fear or inhibition.

Perspectives on Marriage and Unity

“Couples are meant to complement one another. When one is weak, the other lifts him/her up. When one is straying... the other strengthens and prayerfully restores him/her.”
Couples are meant to complement one another. When one is ... - (Facebook)

“It's not about one partner being "in charge" or having more power, but about working together in mutual respect and submission. It's a relationship of equals, with each partner bringing their own strengths to the table.”
Mutual Love and Respect in Marriage According to the Bible - (Facebook, 13·February 2024)

“The term "flesh" in the Old Testament refers not only to one's physical body but to a person's whole existence... By "one flesh" is thus connoted mutual dependence and reciprocity in all areas of life.”
God's Ideal for Marriage - (Adventist Review, 01 February2018)
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Why are there two accounts of creation? This question has been asked from time to time. Some have highlighted key differences between the two accounts (let's call them C₁ and C₂).⁹ For example, both the man and woman (who are unnamed) are created together in C₁, "male and female he created them" (Genesis 1:27). In contrast, Adam is created first in C₂, and God later creates Eve from one of Adam's ribs (Genesis 2:21-22).

I do not believe there are two accounts because Moses, the writer of Genesis, could not decide which one to choose. Instead, Moses may simply have recorded the two versions that had emerged as a result of these accounts being passed on by oral tradition. It is also unwise to see the two versions as competitive and contradictory. Rather, just as we read the four gospels as presenting us with a more complete testimony of Christ, the two versions provide a complementary and fuller picture of God's original creative act. In fact, some scholars see Genesis 2 and 3 as a single unit, where the second chapter sets the stage for the third.¹º

PHOTO: I do not believe there are two accounts because Moses, the writer of Genesis, could not decide which one to choose. Instead, Moses may simply have recorded the two versions that had emerged as a result of these accounts being passed on by oral tradition. It is also unwise to see the two versions as competitive and contradictory. Rather, just as we read the four gospels as presenting us with a more complete testimony of Christ, the two versions provide a complementary and fuller picture of God's original creative act. In fact, some scholars see Genesis 2 and 3 as a single unit, where the second chapter sets the stage for the third.¹º
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If we follow this line of reasoning, then each creation account has specific truths to convey. On the one hand, C₁ focuses on God as the One who creates, is gracious, and blesses. On the other hand, C₂ emphasises God's creation of the human race and His purposes for them. It explains that God placed Adam in a lush primeval garden full of trees and rivers. His God-given task was to work the garden and take care of it (Genesis 2:15).

God also gave Adam the freedom to eat from any of the numerous trees in the garden, except the one tree of the knowledge of good and evil, the fruit of which would have fatal consequences (Genesis 2:16-17). C₂ gives special dignity and statues to the human race and answers the psalmist's question to God, "what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?" (Psalm 8:4). We are special hybrid beings; made from the earth (dust) and also embodiments of something directly from God - His breath (Genesis 2:7).

God also gave Adam the freedom to eat from any of the numerous trees in the garden, except the one tree of the knowledge of good and evil, the fruit of which would have fatal consequences (Genesis 2:16-17).

PHOTO: God also gave Adam the freedom to eat from any of the numerous trees in the garden, except the one tree of the knowledge of good and evil, the fruit of which would have fatal consequences (Genesis 2:16-17). C₂ gives special dignity and statues to the human race and answers the psalmist's question to God, "what is mankind that you are mindful of them, human beings that you care for them?" (Psalm 8:4). We are special hybrid beings; made from the earth (dust) and also embodiments of something directly from God - His breath (Genesis 2:7).
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In C₂, God also established the institution of marriage. He found Adam to be lonely for want of a fellow human being. So, He made Eve out of Adam. This was an act that shows the intimacy between the couple ("bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh", Genesis 2:23). It also reveals that the man and woman had equal status: they were both human beings created by God. The fact that the woman was created after Adam is thus not a reason to see woman as second-class human beings. God "officiated" their wedding and they became "one flesh" in a relationship (Genesis 2:24).

The union between Adam and Eve provides a symbol for the New Testament picture of the marriage between Christ and His church, where the body of Christ (Ephesians 5:21-33) is united with God in His eternal kingdom beginning in heaven with a wedding feast (Revelation 19:6-9).

The union between Adam and Eve provides a symbol for the New Testament picture of the marriage between Christ and His church, where the body of Christ (Ephesians 5:21-33) is united with God in His eternal kingdom beginning in heaven with a wedding feast (Revelation 19:6-9).

PHOTO: The union between Adam and Eve provides a symbol for the New Testament picture of the marriage between Christ and His church, where the body of Christ (Ephesians 5:21-33) is united with God in His eternal kingdom beginning in heaven with a wedding feast (Revelation 19:6-9).
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The picture in C₂ is one of divine blessing and human bliss. But why was there a tree with fruits that were forbidden? One good answer provided by Christian thinkers such as Augustine is that the tree provided the couple with a choice as to whether they wanted to trust and obey Him. God did not create them to be robots programmed to love Him, for this would bot be a reflection of what true love is.

Another question that Christians struggle with is the relationship between men and women. Today, there are egalitarians (arguing that men and women are equal in every way) and complementarians (emphasising that men and women have specific roles, and these can be seen in a hierarchical way). Both these views arise from how Scripture is read and understood. In C₁, there is no difference between the man and woman and they are treated equally. In C₂, there is an order in the creation of the couple that suggests a complementarian perspective.

PHOTO: Another question that Christians struggle with is the relationship between men and women. Today, there are egalitarians (arguing that men and women are equal in every way) and complementarians (emphasising that men and women have specific roles, and these can be seen in a hierarchical way). Both these views arise from how Scripture is read and understood. In C₁, there is no difference between the man and woman and they are treated equally. In C₂, there is an order in the creation of the couple that suggests a complementarian perspective.
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The apostle Paul has been criticised by some as conveying a misogynistic (strongly prejudiced against women) view (see 1 Timothy 2:9-15; 1 Corinthians 14:34-35). But Paul also wrote that in Christ, there is no male and female, "for you are all one in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:28), He argued that the socially sinful lines that divide people according to race, social class, and gender, are erased in the presence of Christ.

Was Paul therefore confused or speaking in contradictions? Perhaps Paul understood both C₁ (where Adam and Eve's equality is emphasised) and C₂ (where their complementarity is highlighted). A proper biblical view would take both views seriously with a "both-and" rather then an "either-or" perspective. That is to say that the relationship between husbands and wives should be marked by ontological (the study of being) equality (equal in being) and functionally complementary roles.

The apostle Paul has been criticised by some as conveying a misogynistic (strongly prejudiced against women) view (see 1 Timothy 2:9-15; 1 Corinthians 14:34-35).

PHOTO: The apostle Paul has been criticised by some as conveying a misogynistic (strongly prejudiced against women) view (see 1 Timothy 2:9-15; 1 Corinthians 14:34-35). But Paul also wrote that in Christ, there is no male and female, "for you are all one in Christ Jesus" (Galatians 3:28), He argued that the socially sinful lines that divide people according to race, social class, and gender, are erased in the presence of Christ.
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We can gain some understanding of the relationship between husbands and wives by considering the Trinity. Christians believe that the three Persons in the Trinity (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit) are all equally God. At the same time, there is some sort of hierarchy within the Trinity. The Son will always be begotten of the Father, that relationship cannot be reversed. Likewise the Holy Spirit proceeds from the Father and the Son.

In similar fashion, both the husband and wife are of equal worth. They each have to respect and love the other mutually, as human beings created in God's image. However, equality in being does not mean that both husbands and wives take on the same roles in marriage. In Paul's teaching, he explains that husbands are to exercise headship (understood as authority or responsibility) in the marriage. This manner of spiritual leadership in the marriage and family is not an excuse to abuse their power and dominate the family. Rather, it is to take the form of servant leadership (Mark 10:42-45; John 13:12-17), where the husband should "give himself up" for his wife and love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Wives, on their part, should then submit to their husbands (Ephesians 5:22). We will explore these ideas further in Chapter 4.

Marriage should not be a power struggle. Every Christian couple must seek to find out what is biblical marital relationship should look like in their particular circumstances. Regarding each other with mutual love and complementing the other according to the gifts and graces that God has endowed the couple is a good place to start.

PHOTO: Marriage should not be a power struggle. Every Christian couple must seek to find out what is biblical marital relationship should look like in their particular circumstances. Regarding each other with mutual love and complementing the other according to the gifts and graces that God has endowed the couple is a good place to start.
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How can couples show mutual respect and practise equality in being? How can they also complement each other in a way that expresses love and understanding?
In Chapter 2 of "In The Beginning", Robert M. Solomon explores the foundational design for human relationships through the creation of man and woman in Genesis 2 . He highlights that marriage is a "covenantal companionship" intended to reflect God's own relational nature.

Mutual Respect and Equality in Being

Solomon emphasizes that equality in a relationship is rooted in the shared identity of being created in the image of God. Couples can practice this by:

Recognizing Shared Essence: Acknowledging that both partners are "bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh," which signifies a fundamental oneness and equality of being.
Practicing Mutual Submission: Moving away from power struggles to a relationship where both partners bring their strengths to the table in mutual respect.
Valuing the Other's Presence: Treating companionship as an essential "antidote to loneliness" rather than taking the partner for granted.

PHOTO: Recognizing Shared Essence: Acknowledging that both partners are "bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh," which signifies a fundamental oneness and equality of being.
Practicing Mutual Submission: Moving away from power struggles to a relationship where both partners bring their strengths to the table in mutual respect.
Valuing the Other's Presence: Treating companionship as an essential "antidote to loneliness" rather than taking the partner for granted.
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Complementing Through Love and Understanding

To complement each other effectively, Solomon suggests that differences should be viewed as opportunities for partnership rather than points of conflict.

Acting as a "Suitable Helper": Understanding that the term "helper" (ezer) implies a partner of equal status who provides what the other lacks, creating a synergistic (united) union.
Support in Weakness: Actively lifting each other up when one is weak or straying, ensuring the relationship is a source of spiritual and emotional strength.
Nurturing "One Flesh" Unity: This involves a commitment to spiritual, emotional, and physical oneness that requires constant nourishment and protection from outside interference.
Transparent Communication: Building intimacy through openness—modeled by the biblical description of being "naked and not ashamed"—which allows for love to be expressed without fear or inhibition.

PHOTO: Complementing Through Love and Understanding
To complement each other effectively, Solomon suggests that differences should be viewed as opportunities for partnership rather than points of conflict.

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Perspectives on Marriage and Unity

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“It's not about one partner being "in charge" or having more power, but about working together in mutual respect and submission. It's a relationship of equals, with each partner bringing their own strengths to the table.”
Mutual Love and Respect in Marriage According to the Bible - (Facebook, 13·February 2024)
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“The term "flesh" in the Old Testament refers not only to one's physical body but to a person's whole existence... By "one flesh" is thus connoted mutual dependence and reciprocity in all areas of life.”
God's Ideal for Marriage - (Adventist Review, 01 February2018)
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“The term "flesh" in the Old Testament refers not only to one's physical body but to a person's whole existence... By "one flesh" is thus connoted mutual dependence and reciprocity in all areas of life.”
God's Ideal for Marriage - (Adventist Review, 01 February2018)
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PHOTO: "Dear Lord, we pray that marriage is a 'covenantal companionship' intended to reflect God's own relational nature. May husbands and wives complement each other effectively, and differences should be viewed as opportunities for partnership rather than points of conflict.

Through Lord Jesus Christ we pray. Amen."
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Reflection - How can couples show mutual respect and practice equality in being
Source (book): "In The Beginning", Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis, Chapter 2, "A Garden and a Marriage (Genesis 2:4-25)", Question 1, "How can couples show mutual respect and practice equality in being", Page 15.
By Robert M. Solomon, Bishop of the Methodist Church in Singapore from 2000 - 2012

Footnotes

⁹ Rabbi Joseph B. Soloveitchik published an essay in 1965, "The Lonely Man of Faith," that was later published as a book (New York: Doubleday, 1992). In it he explains why there are two accounts of creation, suggesting that two Adams are presented in different roles to represent the human condition. The Adam depicted in Genesis 1 (Adam I) is a "majestic man" who masters his environment as mandated by God. The Adam of Genesis 2 is Adam II who surrenders himself to the will of God and discovers redemption. Soloveitchik argues that the man of faith must integrate both views of Adam.

¹º See Jerome T. Walsh, "Genesis 2:4b-3:24: A Synchronic Approach," Journal of Biblical Literature, Vol. 96, No. 2 (June 1997), 161-177.

Other Books (Links)

"Faithful to the end", A Preacher's Exposition of 2 Timothy, @ 2014 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Faithful to the end (Links)
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2017/06/reflection-faithful-to-end-links.html

"Finding rest for the soul" Responding to Jesus' Invitation in Matthew 11:28-29, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Finding rest for the soul (Links)
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2018/10/reflection-finding-rest-for-soul-links.html

"God in Pursuit" Lessons from the Book of Jonah, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART I-III, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/08/reflection-god-in-pursuit-links-part-i.html

"God in Pursuit" Lessons from the Book of Jonah, © 2016 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - God in Pursuit (Links) - PART IV, posted on Saturday, 10 August 2019
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2019/08/reflection-god-in-pursuit-links-part-iv.html

"Songs of Christmas", The Stories and Significance of 20 Well-Loved Carols, © 2018 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Songs of Christmas (Links), posted on Friday, 24 April 2020
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/04/reflection-songs-of-christmas-links.html

"Growing Old Gracefully", Following Jesus to the End, © 2019 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Growing Old Gracefully, Part I - III (Links), posted on Wednesday, 09 December 2020
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/12/reflection-growing-old-gracefully-part.html

Reflection - Growing Old Gracefully, Part IV - V (Links), posted on Thursday, 22 April 2021
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/12/reflection-growing-old-gracefully-part_9.html

"Teach Us to Number Our Days", © 2008 by David Roper

Reflection - Number Our Days, Chapter 1 - 40 (Links), posted on Tuesday, 16 November 2021
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2021/11/reflection-number-our-days-chapter-1-40.html

Reflection - Number Our Days, Chapter 41 - 64 (Links), posted on Wednesday, 16 March 2022
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2022/03/reflection-number-our-days-chapter-41.html

"He Walks with Me - Devotions for Your Caregiving Journey with God", © 2018 by Our Daily Bread Ministries, Shelly Beach

Reflection - He Walks with Me (Links), posted on Tuesday, 16 August 2022
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2022/08/reflection-he-walks-with-me-links.html

"Classic Gem: Timeless Devotions from Our Daily Bread Authors", Copyright © 2021 by Our Daily Bread Ministries

Reflection - Classic Gem, Chapter 1 - 45 (Links), posted on 03 April 2023
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2023/04/reflection-classic-gem-chapter-1-45.html

"Classic Gem: Timeless Devotions from Our Daily Bread Authors", Copyright © 2021 by Our Daily Bread Ministries

Reflection - Classic Gem, Chapter 46 - 90 (Links), posted on Tuesday, 24 October 2023
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2023/10/reflection-classic-gem-chapter-46-90.html

"Making All Things New", 52 Reflections to Challenge the Way You Live, Copyright @ 2022 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Making All Things New, Chapter 1 - 28 (Links), posted on Saturday, 04 August 2024
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2024/08/reflection-making-all-things-new.html

"Making All Things New", 52 Reflections to Challenge the Way You Live, Copyright @ 2022 by Robert M. Solomon

Reflection - Making All Things New, Chapter 29 - 52 (Links), posted on Saturday, 15 March 2025
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2025/03/reflection-making-all-things-new.html

"My Soul Thirsts For God", Reflections on the Psalms from Our Daily Bread, Copyright @ 2009 by Discovery House Publishers

Reflection - My Soul Thirsts For God, Verse 1 - 46 (Links) on Monday, 25 August 2025
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2025/08/reflection-my-soul-thirsts-for-god.html

"My Soul Thirsts For God", Reflections on the Psalms from Our Daily Bread, Copyright @ 2009 by Discovery House Publishers

Reflection - My Soul Thirsts For God, Verse 47 - 92 (Links) on Tuesday, 27 January 2026
https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2026/01/reflection-my-soul-thirsts-for-god.html

Reference

[1] From "In The Beginning", Tracing The Gospel Story In Genesis, Copyright @ 2009 by Robert M. Solomon, Chapter 2, "A Garden and a Marriage (Genesis 2:4-25)", Question 1, "How can couples show mutual respect and practice equality in being", Page 15.

Links

Other Books (Links) - https://veryfatoldman.blogspot.com/2020/10/reflection-books-links.html

1 Corinthians 14:34-35 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Corinthians%2014%3A34-35&version=NIV

1 Timothy 2:9-15 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1%20Timothy%202%3A9-15&version=NIV

Ephesians 5:21-33 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%205%3A21-33&version=NIV

Ephesians 5:22 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%205%3A22&version=NIV

Ephesians 5:25 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%205%3A25&version=NIV

Galatians 3:28 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Galatians%203%3A28&version=NIV

Genesis 1:27 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%201%3A27&version=NIV

Genesis 2:4-25 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A4-25&version=NIV

Genesis 2:7 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A7&version=NIV

Genesis 2:15 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A15&version=NIV

Genesis 2:16-17 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A16-17&version=NIV

Genesis 2:21-22 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A21-22&version=NIV

Genesis 2:23 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A23&version=NIV

Genesis 2:24 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis%202%3A24&version=NIV

John 13:12-17 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2013%3A12-17&version=NIV

Mark 10:42-45 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark%2010%3A42-45&version=NIV

Matthew 11:28-29 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+11%3A28-29&version=NIV

Psalm 8:4 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Psalm%208%3A4&version=NIV

Revelation 19:6-9 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Revelation%2019%3A6-9&version=NIV