Monday, July 31, 2017

I apologise for my 'heck-care attitude'

Source Website: http://www.tnp.sg/lifestyle/others/i-apologise-my-heck-care-attitude
By S M Ong, Columnist, The New Paper, 31 July 2017 at 06:00 am


Actress-film-maker Michelle Chong in a promo for Orange Is The New Black.  
PHOTO: Actress-film-maker Michelle Chong in a promo for Orange Is The New Black.
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In a viral Facebook post, Michelle Chong says: 'Singapore would be a better place if people really just take pride in their work'

Dear Michelle Chong,
I'm sorry. You were right.

I saw your viral Facebook post.

It's like what you said - people in Singapore don't "have any pride in their work and just have a 'pass up homework' heck-care attitude".

You also wrote: "They don't check their work, don't care about how it turns out, don't take that extra step to value-add or think about how to make it better, don't want to improve etc.

"It's a 'why should I bother? It's not like I'm getting paid very much for this job' or 'please lah it's just a job right?' or 'do extra for what? I'm still getting the same salary right?' attitude."



Local celebrity Michelle Chong recently took her frustrations to the Internet, complaining that Singaporeans do not take pride in their work.
PHOTO: Local celebrity Michelle Chong recently took her frustrations to the Internet, complaining that Singaporeans do not take pride in their work.
Michelle Chong's Facebook post struck a nerve.
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When I read that, I felt like you were scolding me directly.

Even though we haven't spoken to each other since we worked together on that failed TV pilot at Mediacorp 10 years ago, you still know me so well.

Writing this column is like homework.

I have such a "heck-care attitude" that I can't even bother to do this column every week any more.

It's now every two weeks and I still don't care how it turns out.

Like in my last column, I didn't care that I used the word "boobs" way too many times.

And I'm still getting the same salary!

Instead of taking that extra step to value-add, I'm taking that extra step to value-subtract.

It's not like I'm getting paid very much for this job.

But I doubt that everyone is as "heck care" as me.

So to say that "people here generally don't care about what they do" is, well, a bit of a generalisation.

In your Facebook post, you cited examples of "shoddy work" by a post-production house and an interior design firm you hired, but I don't know their side of the story.

For instance, some have criticised McDonald's for launching the Nasi Lemak Burger for National Day only to run out of the burger two weeks before National Day, which kind of defeated the purpose of launching the burger for National Day.

But as McDonald's explained, the burger sold out due to "overwhelming demand".

So it's actually the people's fault for buying too many Nasi Lemak Burgers. I bought four myself. I apologise for my overwhelming patriotism.

MRT DELAYS
Many have also been unhappy about the frequent MRT delays in recent weeks.

But as Coordinating Minister for Infrastructure and Minister for Transport Khaw Boon Wan pointed out on Thursday, the MRT has become three times more reliable in the two years since he took charge.



Coordinating Minister for Infrastructure and Minister for Transport Khaw Boon Wan pointed out on Thursday, the MRT has become three times more reliable in the two years since he took charge.
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That's one man who has pride in his work.

The minister blamed the press for "frightening readers".

He said: "If it were so simple, they don't need us. We can ask the reporter to run the train system."

Having written a number of articles about train delays even though I'm not a "reporter" per se, I was afraid for a moment that I would be asked to run the MRT.

But then I thought, hey, this could be a rare opportunity.

You know what's the first thing I would do?

Change a few station names.

We have too many stations with "Tuas" in their names - Tuas Crescent, Tuas West Road and Tuas Link.

As if we're not confused enough by Marina Bay/Marina South Pier and Farrer Park/Farrer Road.

You probably take the MRT all the time. You know what I'm talking about, right?

So I do agree with you, Michelle. At least, partially.

Yes, there are people - such as whoever named the MRT stations - who don't have any pride in their work.

Not just me.

But not everyone.

Would it be too abrupt to end the column here?

Aiyah, heck care lah.

By S M Ong, Columnist, The New Paper, 31 July 2017 at 06:00 am


I Don't Care Quotes
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Everyone experiences a moment in life when you get so much hurt, that you just officially don’t care anymore. Of course, whenever someone raises up the topic again, it works as a salt on a wound, but your discussion ends with the reaction “I don’t care”. [2]
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Sometime we cannot 'heck-care'.
PHOTO: Sometime we cannot 'heck-care'.
A motorcycle crashing into a stationary white car. Both the motorcyclist and pillion rider were thrown off the bike on impact, with the pillion rider flying into the air and landing several metres away from the car.
The crash happened on the Seletar Expressway (SLE) before the Lentor Avenue exit on Monday morning (24 july 2017). Both victims are in Khoo Teck Puat Hospital's intensive care unit.
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Cute Sorry By Rat
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To forgive and make peace is divine. Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. (1 Corinthians 13:4-7) [3]
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Squirrel: 'Sorry?! I didn't catch what you said! Please can you repeat it?'
PHOTO: Squirrel: "Sorry?! I didn't catch what you said! Please can you repeat it?"
Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled; (Hebrews 12:14-15) [3]
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Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32)
PHOTO: Sorry. Please forgive me.
Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32) [3]
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Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. (Ephesians 4:31)
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Reference
[1] S M Ong,Columnist, The New Paper, I apologise for my 'heck-care attitude', posted on 31 July 2017 at 06:00 am, http://www.tnp.sg/lifestyle/others/i-apologise-my-heck-care-attitude

[2] Akshay, I Don't Care Quotes, https://lifehacks.io/i-dont-care-quotes/

[3] Crossway Bibles, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers, Apologizing, https://www.openbible.info/topics/apologizing

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