Monday, April 23, 2012

往事回味无穷 (wǎng​ shì huí​ wèi​ wú​ qióng) - Endless memories of the past

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PHOTO: 童年总是让人回味无穷。我们一起来话童年吧!
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The childhood's days are always the most memorable. Allow us to recollect the childhood memories!
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不知不觉,我们已经走过童年那一段色彩斑斓的岁月,掀开斑驳的记忆,你会发现,那一桩桩令人魂牵梦萦的往事依旧历历在目。

童年的天是最蓝的,童年的水是最甜的,童年的花是最艳的,童年的月是最亮的……童年总是让人回味无穷。

无论你是“超龄儿童”,还是那些儿童的父母,让我们一起去回味那些童年的往事吧!



童年的月是最亮的……童年总是让人回味无穷。The childhood's days are the brightest ... , and are always the most memorable.
PHOTO: 童年的月是最亮的……童年总是让人回味无穷。
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http://www.genyuan.org/a/huiyuanpindao/tupianfenxiang/2010/0603/346_25.html


Unknowing, we have gone through the childhood years. For some, the colorful memory, is still vivid in our mind.

Childhood days water are the most blue and flowers are the most brilliant. The childhood's days are the brightest ... , and are always the most memorable.

Parents, whatever your children's age, allow us to recollect the childhood memories!



PHOTO: 童年留给我们太多美好的记忆。
(图片来源:互联网)
Childhood leaves us with too many good memories.
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http://news.jxgdw.com/jszg/1320675.html


童年的欢乐 - Childhood's days happiness
PHOTO: 童年的欢乐 - Childhood's days happiness
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http://blog.sina.com.cn/littlepotato1106


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Sunday, April 22, 2012

Our Speak Mandarin campaign

Today on Sunday, Sunday, April 22, 2012, Page 8, Parent To Parent
From http://www.todayonline.com/PDFViewer/PDF/20120422/2204FFW008.pdf
Source Website: http://www.todayonline.com/Columns/ParenttoParent/EDC120422-0000004/Our-Speak-Mandarin-campaign
By June Wan, todayonsunday@mediacorp.com.sg, 04:45 AM Apr 22, 201




PHOTO: 习惯成自然 Xi guan cheng zi ran (make it a habit and it becomes natural)
Copyright © MediaCorp Press Ltd
Today on Sunday, Sunday, April 22, 2012, Page 8, Parent To Parent



I failed Chinese in school - but my experiment in talking to my son only in Mandarin has been a resounding success


In a cab the other day, the small one started talking about the colour of the vehicle. This is a blue "de shi", he piped, using the Mandarin term for taxi.

The taxi driver asked why I had taught him "de shi". No one will understand you when you go home, he warned.

Back where you come from, taxis are called "ji cheng che", aren't they? he continued.


PHOTO: Our experiment to speak to the little one in only Mandarin from birth, to see if he picks up the language, has succeeded. Now three-and-a-half years old, he rattles to me in Mandarin and switches effortlessly to English when conversing with his daddy.
http://behance.vo.llnwd.net/profiles/60307/projects/100215/603071213697888.jpg
http://www.behance.net/gallery/speak-mandarin-campaign/100215



No, I said, we know them as "de shi".

Aren't you from China? he queried.

No, we are Singaporeans, I replied.

Oh, you've got your PR already, he quipped.

Er no, we're born and bred here, Uncle, I said.

But your son speaks like he's from China! the taxi driver exclaimed.

Whoo-hoo! I silently rejoiced. It worked!




PHOTO: Speak Mandarin Campaign
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http://chopchopcurrypok.com/?cat=30


Yes, my experiment to speak to the little one in only Mandarin from birth, to see if he picks up the language, has succeeded. Now three-and-a-half years old, he rattles to me in Mandarin and switches effortlessly to English when conversing with his daddy, who did the English version of the experiment.

Having failed Chinese as a second language during my A-levels (and having to retake the exam so as not to have to attend Chinese camp at university), this was not a small decision. It was hard work!

I had to do mental translations before speaking to him. Google Translate became my new BFF (Best Friends Forever). I dusted off my old Chinese-English dictionaries from my parents' place and hauled them home. The radio became permanently tuned to 88.3FM.


PHOTO: Speak Mandarin Campaign
http://farm3.staticflickr.com/2547/4117262328_0a5382a163_o.jpg
http://chopchopcurrypok.com/?cat=30



I could not scold him as easily because I did not know what words to use in Mandarin. And we'd be brushed aside or appallingly served at certain shops and restaurants (or encounter the opposite in service when we spoke Queen's English instead).

But eventually, over the weeks, it became easier. Xi guan cheng zi ran (make it a habit and it becomes natural), as the Chinese idiom goes.



PHOTO: Speak Mandarin Campaign.
Web Design, Graphic Design, Illustration
http://behance.vo.llnwd.net/profiles/60307/projects/100215/603071213697970.jpg
http://www.behance.net/gallery/speak-mandarin-campaign/100215



SO HE CAN CHAT WITH SWEDES AND POLITICIANS


The little one was subject to all this also because of his older brother, who refused to acknowledge Chinese at two-and-a half years of age, when he could read English independently.

He told me not to speak to him in Mandarin. He preferred English, and that was that. So he was devouring Enid Blyton at age three-and-a-half, and the English newspapers a year later. But attempts to re-introduce him to Mandarin failed.

I'd read that children could pick up a language easily through regular exposure to it, so the little one became my guinea pig. The main aim was just for him not to have to go through the same Mother Tongue learning struggles that I did in school.



PHOTO: From chinese medicine to comics, Ms Lim Siew Gek’s lessons make learning Chinese a cool thing to do.
Ms Lim’s special TCM-infused lesson for her school’s Pri 2 curriculum has been so successful that colleagues, parents and pupils named her for the Most Outstanding CL Lesson Plan award in 2006. Since then, Ms Lim has shared her lesson plans with many other schools in Singapore, even going as far as China.
http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3048/3039893589_503cf89e84.jpg
http://www.schoolbag.sg/archives/2008/11/teachers_who_make_mother_tongu.php


And having failed in this aspect with his older brother, I was determined to succeed with him. There were other reasons, too, of course:

- The world is flat, and China is shifting to the centre of the world map. Mandarin, the most common language in the world, is spoken by almost a fifth of the globe's population. In years to come, there will be even more Mandarin speakers.

- So if he travels to Sweden when he grows up, he'll have no problem getting around. After all, last year, Sweden's Education Minister Jan Bjorklund announced that all Swedish primary schools should offer Chinese lessons.


PHOTO: The language of our forefathers – are we missing something?
By Zyberzitizen, Posted by theonlinecitizen on February 28, 2007
http://djhchinesekidz.blogspot.com/2009/11/only-bad-memories-of-chinese-lessons.html
http://theonlinecitizen.com/2007/02/the-language-of-our-forefathers-are-we-missing-something/



- So that he can, if he ever meets them, converse easily with overseas politicians who are fluent in Mandarin:

Former Australian Prime Minister Kevin Rudd; United States Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner; former US Ambassador to China (and Singapore!) and former presidential candidate Jon Huntsman ...

- So that back home, he will be able to

(i) order food at a hawker centre,
(ii) chat with taxi drivers and
(iii) gossip with aunties and grannies at the void deck.
PHOTO: 新的《讲华语运动》标语。觉得如何?- The new "Speak Mandarin Campaign" slogan. Like it?
Author: Danny Yeo
杨君伟
http://blog.omy.sg/dannyyeo/files/2011/07/Speak-Mandarin-Campaign-2011-new-slogan.jpg
http://blog.omy.sg/dannyyeo/archives/category/%E8%AF%B4%E7%8E%AF%E5%A2%83/page/8


ENGAGE BRAIN - ON BOTH SIDES


And of course, there's all that talk about how beneficial learning more than one language can be.

A 2003 study in Britain found that it takes more brainpower to speak Mandarin, as both sides of the brain are engaged to understand the language. (Apparently this ability to engage both sides of the brain is exclusive to the Chinese language.)

I was also inspired by an interview with a local professor of Chinese language and culture who revealed that he spoke to his daughters only in Mandarin when they were growing up. They'll pick up English when they go to school, he'd said.



PHOTO: Speak Mandarin Campaign
http://listverse.files.wordpress.com/2010/02/34940_story_images-tm.jpg?w=400&h=262
http://listverse.com/2010/02/26/10-modern-cases-of-linguistic-genocide/



Amazingly, despite my basic level of Chinese, the little one learnt. In his younger days, before he realised that his daddy could understand Mandarin as well, he would translate his demands if his father was slow to respond: "Socks, Daddy, socks. Wa zi!"

Even better, because the older one is also exposed to Mandarin when I speak to his little brother, he has re-absorbed the language.

Now I have a new problem. Because my knowledge of Mandarin is basic - about kindergarten level - I can only teach my boys this much.


PHOTO: Girl's poster: "Grandma, please speak Mandarin."
Grandma (in Cantonese): "You got to be kidding!"

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http://chinamusictech.blogspot.com/2010/08/is-cantonese-in-danger-of-extinction.html



We still speak in Mandarin but, last month, the boys started a Chinese enrichment programme. They love it, and I am glad that they now have exposure to the language from the experts. In the meantime, I need to buck up and improve on my Mandarin skills.

After this, we'll try Malay.
By June Wan, todayonsunday@mediacorp.com.sg, 04:45 AM Apr 22, 2012
June Wan has two boys.


Reference

Being yourself at work is not good for your career, study claims


Source Website:  
http://www.todayonline.com/World/EDC120419-0000141/Being-yourself-at-work-is-not-good-for-your-career,-study-claims
By AGENCIES, 02:45 PM Apr 19, 2012


 http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/9212438/Being-yourself-at-work-is-not-good-for-your-career-study-claims.html
By Murray Wardrop, The Telegraph, 6:15AM BST 19 Apr 2012



 LONDON - Honesty is often said to be the best policy in social situations but being yourself at work is not a good idea for your career, research suggests.

While revealing your true character to a partner or friends is likely to make you happier, experts claim doing so at the office is not a recipe for promotion.

Scientists assessed levels of "authentic self expression" in 533 volunteers to see how far they opened up to people they interacted with socially.

 
PHOTO: Be careful what you share on the social-networking giant Facebook.
Nicholas Kamm / AFP - Getty Images
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http://travelkit.msnbc.msn.com/_nv/more/section/archive?date=2011/11
 


The Daily Telegraph reported that the results showed that participants were more likely to "be themselves" with partners, followed by friends and then parents. However, they were much less likely to show their true self to work colleagues.

Those who opened up to their partners tended to have greater well-being and were more satisfied with life. But the same benefits were not seen from being authentic at work.

 
PHOTO: Your partner will - subconsciously - enjoy the security of bragging to her friends about your efforts
From Beyond foto - beyond fotomedia - Getty Images
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Dr Oliver Robinson, from the University of Greenwich in London, said: "You hear self-help gurus say that the secret of happiness is 'being yourself' or 'expressing your true feelings', but that doesn't seem to apply in the workplace.  

"So in some circumstances, it may be that a polite smile or tactfully keeping quiet may be more conducive to your well-being than saying what you actually think and feel to work colleagues."


The results were presented at the annual meeting of the British Psychological Society, taking place in London.
By AGENCIES, 02:45 PM Apr 19, 2012
By Murray Wardrop, The Telegraph, 6:15AM BST 19 Apr 2012





PHOTO: While revealing your true character to a partner or friends is likely to make you happier, experts claim doing so at the office is not a recipe for promotion.
Photo: ALAMY
http://i.telegraph.co.uk/multimedia/archive/02196/B36D5H_2196941b.jpg
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/9212438/Being-yourself-at-work-is-not-good-for-your-career-study-claims.html


 

Reference
 

Friday, April 20, 2012

人生七大图(诗) - Seven Pictures (poem) of life

Source Website:
http://www.nn26.com/xinli/show.asp?id=985
http://www.gettop.net/Photo/ShowInfo.asp?ID=13
http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/xxhxlihui/article/b0-i1069214.html - Text



PHOTO: 人生十大点 (rén​ shēng shí dà diǎn) - Ten points of life
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人生十大点 (rén​ shēng shí dà diǎn)

理由少一点,肚量大一点
lǐ​ yóu shǎo yī​ diǎn, dù liáng dà yī​ diǎn

做事多一点,嘴巴甜一点
zuò​ shì duō yī​ diǎn, zuǐ ​ba tián yī​ diǎn

脾气小一点,行动快一点
pí​ qi xiǎo yī​ diǎn, xíng​ dòng kuài yī​ diǎn

说话轻一点,效率高一点
shuō​ qīng huà yī​ diǎn, xiào ​lǜ gāo yī​ diǎn

微笑露一点,脑筋活一点
wēi​ xiào lù yī​ diǎn, nǎo ​jīn huó yī​ diǎn


Ten points of life
Less justification, more magnanimous
Work diligently, courteous to others
Slow to anger, fast to serve
Speak softer, produce more
Wider smile, stay alert




PHOTO: 人生十四最 (rén​ shēng shí ​sì zuì) - The fourteen biggest in life
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http://www.nn26.com/xinli/show.asp?id=985
http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/xxhxlihui/article/b0-i1069214.html - Text


人生十四最 (rén​ shēng shí ​sì zuì)

人生最大的敌人是自己
rén​ shēng zuì dà de dí ​rén shì zì ​jǐ

人生最大的失败是自大
rén​ shēng zuì dà de shī​ bài shì zì​ dà

人生最大的无智是欺骗
rén​ shēng zuì dà de wú zhì shì qī​ piàn

人生最大的错误是自弃
rén​ shēng zuì dà de cuò ​shì wù zì qì

人生最大的悲哀是嫉妒
rén​ shēng zuì dà de bēi āi shì jí​ dù

人生最可佩服的是精进
rén​ shēng zuì kě pèi​ fú de shì jīng ​jìn

人生最大的破产是绝望
rén​ shēng zuì dà de pò ​chǎn shì jué​ wàng

人生最大的财富是健康
rén​ shēng zuì dà de cái ​fù shì jiàn ​kāng

人生最大的债务是情债
rén​ shēng zuì dà de zhài​ wù shì qíng zhài

人生最大的礼物是宽恕
rén​ shēng zuì dà de lǐ​ wù shì kuān​ shù

人生最大的缺欠是悲智
rén​ shēng zuì dà de quē qiàn shì bēi zhì

人生最大的欣慰是布施
rén​ shēng zuì dà de xīn​ wèi shì bù ​shī

人生最可怜的性情是自卑
rén​ shēng zuì kě ​lián de xìng​ qíng shì zì ​bēi

人生最大的罪过是自欺欺人
rén​ shēng zuì dà de zuì​ guo shì zì​ qī​ qī ​rén


The fourteen biggest in life
The greatest enemy is yourself
The biggest failure in life is arrogance
The greatest lack of wisdom is to deceive
Biggest mistake in life is to give up on yourself
The greatest tragedy in life is jealousy
Life most admired is dedicate oneself to progress
The greatest bankruptcy in life is hopelessness
The greatest wealth is health
The greatest debt is emotional debt (eg. love, gratitude)
The greatest gift is forgiveness
The greatest shortcomings is Compassion and Wisdom
The greatest comfort in life is to donate (Buddhist practice of giving)
Life most miserable temperament (emotion) is lack of self-esteem
The biggest sin in life is self-deception (to believe one's own lies)




PHOTO: 笑一笑没烦恼 (xiào yī xiào méi fán​ nǎo) - Smile smile, no worries
http://www.nn26.com/uploadfile/3%2813%29.jpg
http://www.nn26.com/xinli/show.asp?id=985


笑一笑没烦恼 (xiào yī xiào méi fán​ nǎo)
一笑烦恼跑 (yī xiào fán​ nǎo pǎo)
二笑怒气消 (èr xiào nù​ qì xiāo)
三笑憾事了 (sān xiào hàn shì liǎo)
四笑病魔逃 (sì xiào bìng​ mó táo)
五笑永不老 (wǔ xiào yǒng ​bù lǎo)
六笑乐逍遥 (liù xiào lè xiāo​ yáo)
时常开口笑 (shí​ cháng kāi​ kǒu xiào)
寿比南山高 (shòu ​bǐ​ Nán ​shān gāo)

Smile smile, no worries
First smile keeps trouble away
Second smile subsides fury
Third smile ends pity feelings
Fourth smile prevents disease
Fifth smile promotes longevity
Sixth smile freedom to enjoyment
Smile more often
Your age becomes as numerous as the highest mountain's height




PHOTO: 莫生气诗 (mò shēng ​qì shī) - Don't be angry
http://www.nn26.com/uploadfile/4%2813%29.jpg
http://www.nn26.com/xinli/show.asp?id=985


莫生气诗 (mò shēng ​qì shī)

人生就象一场戏, 因为有缘才相聚
rén​ shēng jiù xiàng yī chǎng xì, yīn​ wèi yǒu​ yuán cái xiāng ​jù

相扶到老不容易,是否更该去珍惜
xiāng fú dào lǎo bù róng ​yì, shì ​fǒu gèng gāi qù zhēn​ xī

为了小事发脾气,回头想来又何必
wèi ​le xiǎo​ shì fā​ pí​ qì, huí​ tóu xiǎng ​lái yòu hé ​bì

别人生气我不气,气出病来无人替
bié​ ren shēng ​qì wǒ bù qì, qì chū bìng lái wú ​rén tì

我若气坏谁如意,而且伤神又费力
wǒ ruò qì huài shéi rú ​yì, ér​ qiě shāng shén yòu fèi ​lì

出门在外少管事,早去早归少惦记
chū ​mén zài​ wài shǎo guǎn shì, zǎo qù zǎo guī shǎo diàn ​jì

邻居亲朋不要比,儿孙琐事随他去
lín ​jū qīn qìng péng bù​ yào bǐ, ér​ sūn suǒ ​shì suí tā qù

娃娃降生皆欢喜,人到终年任他去
wá ​wa jiàng​ shēng jiē huān ​xǐ, rén dào zhōng ​nián rèn tā qù

吃苦是乐在一起,神仙羡慕好伴侣
chī ​kǔ shì lè zài​ yī​ qǐ, shén​ xiān xiàn​ mù hào bàn ​lǚ

男女老少多注意,莫生气啊莫生气
nán​ nǚ ​lǎo ​shào duō zhù ​yì, mò shēng ​qì ǎ mò shēng ​qì


Don't be angry
Life is like a drama, fate brought us together
Opportunity of being together is rare, so treasure one another
If easily angered, think back and ask why
Others get angry but not me, because nobody cares if I falls sick from anger
Others benefits from my anger, which is exhausting and mentally stressful
When outside, returned early, and stay trouble free
Don't compare with Neighbors, relatives and friends, let the youngs handle the differences
Experience the joy of having a baby, accept that the old have his own destiny
Enjoy the fruits of relationship, envied even by the gods
Lets not be angry, everyone!




PHOTO: 莫强求 (mò qiǎng​ qiú) - Do not force
http://www.gettop.net/UpFiles/Picture/admin/200908/200981143936432.jpg
http://www.gettop.net/Photo/ShowInfo.asp?ID=13


莫强求 (mò qiǎng​ qiú)
人生在世数十年,(rén​ shēng zài ​shì shù shí nián)
忧愁常是为了钱。(yōu​ chóu Cháng shì wèi ​le qián)
穷困生活非可怜,(qióng​ kùn shēng​ huó fēi kě​ lián)
建康无病最延年。(Jiàn​ kāng wú bìng zuì yán ​nián)
本身就是黄金屋,(běn​ shēn jiù ​shì huáng ​jīn wū)
何必强求他方物。(hé​ bì qiǎng​ qiú tā fāng​ wù)
粗茶淡饭加豆腐,(cū​ chá​ dàn ​fàn jiā dòu fu)
知足常乐最幸福。(zhī ​zú​ cháng ​lè zuì xìng ​fú)

Do not force
life is only for decades,
Worry often about money (financial problem).
Poor living without pitiful lifestyle,
Healthy without sickness for longevity.
Yourself is the house of gold,
Why demand other's posession
Bread and water, add the tofu,
Satisfied with what one has is the happiest.




PHOTO: (rěn) - Endure
http://www.gettop.net/UpFiles/Picture/admin/200908/200981145345525.jpg
http://www.gettop.net/Photo/ShowInfo.asp?ID=13


(rěn)
忍一忍, (rěn yī rěn)
笑一笑, (xiào yī xiào)
别爭吵, (bié zhēng​ chǎo)
想一想, (xiǎng yī xiǎng)
静思量, (jìng sī​ liang)
大家好。 (dà ​jiā hào)
看得开, (kān dé kāi)
放得下, (fàng​ de​ xià)
没烦恼。 (méi fán​ nǎo)

Endure
Endure,
Smile,
Do not quarrel,
Think over,
Quietly consider,
Good for everyone.
Able to let go,
Able to accommodate,
Then no worries.




PHOTO: 不管别人对不对 (bù​ guǎn bié ​ren duì​ bù ​duì) - Regardless of whether others are right or not
http://www.gettop.net/UpFiles/Picture/admin/200908/20098114921834.jpg
http://www.gettop.net/Photo/ShowInfo.asp?ID=13


不管别人对不对 (bù​ guǎn bié ​ren duì​ bù ​duì)
自己先要做得对 (zì ​jǐ xiān yāo zuò de duì)
不管别人好不好 (bù​ guǎn bié ​ren hǎo​ bù ​hǎo)
自己先要做得好 (zì ​jǐ xiān yāo zuò de hǎo)

Regardless of whether others are right or not
First you yourself must do it right
Regardless of whether others are good or not
First you yourself must do it well


Translated by MDBG Chinese-English Dictionary, and Google Translate



PHOTO: 知足常乐最幸福。(zhī ​zú​ cháng ​lè zuì xìng ​fú) - Satisfied with what one has is the happiest.
http://i05.c.aliimg.com/blog/upload/2006/08/22/4976ac06d710a6a39d57870f87828f6a.gif
http://blog.china.alibaba.com/blog/xxhxlihui/article/b0-i1065105.html



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