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Kè gú míng xīn
Photo is obtained from http://www.cooqy.com/blog/images/shame.jpg
Agony of an ugly,old and fat single - 羞 得 无 地 自 容
手 足 无 措 - ”At a loss as to what to do; panic”
Shòu zú wú cuò
手 忙 脚 乱 - ”Confused, disorder”
Shòu máng jiǎo luàn
羞 得 无 地 自 容 - “So ashamed but nowhere to hide”
Xiū dé wú dì zì róng
羞 面 见 人 - “Ashamed to face people”
Xiū miàn jiàn rén
自 不 量 力 - “Does no known one’s own limitation”
Zì bù liàn lì
刻 骨 铭 心 - ”Remember deeply the pain, just like scraping the bone”
Kè gú míng xīn
感 情 注 定 失 败 - ”Love relationship doomed to failure”
Gǎn qíng zhù dìng shī bài
(失 败 乃 成 功 之 母) - ”Failure is the mother of success”
Shī bài nǎi chéng gōng zhí mǔ
义 无 反 顾 - ”Never look back, continue on relentlessly”
Yí wú fǎn gù
名 花 有 主 - ”Popular and already attached”
Míng huā yóu zhǔ
鲜 花 插 在 牛 粪 上 - ”Fresh Flowers inserted in cow dung”
Xiān huā chā zài niú fèn shàngíng
癞 蛤 蟆 想 吃 天 鹅 肉 - ”To crave for what one is not worthy of, She's out of you league”
Lài há má xiǎng chī tiān é ròu
癞 皮 狗 - ”a mangy dog, scum-sucking pig, a loathsome creature”
Lài pí gǒu
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Photo is obtained from http://fanart.lionking.org/Artists/Agent/Rejected.gif
手 足 无 措 - ”At a loss as to what to do; panic”
Shòu zú wú cuò
Dilemmas and predicaments during Courting
- “Do not introduce such ‘thing’ to me. What others have rejected, I also do not want!”
- “Don’t try your luck again. You are hopeless.”
- “I am like flower on cowshit (鲜花插在牛粪上).”
- “You are a toad dreaming of heavenly crane (癞蛤蟆想吃天鹅肉).”
- “Something must be wrong with you.”
- “I feel ashamed for you.”
- “I am going to call the police.”
- “Try that old auntie; she is very suitable for you.”
- “You are not going to get anything from me. Get lost!”
- “My expectation is higher than this.”
- “Look in the mirror first.”
- “Somebody, help me!”
- “Scum (癞皮狗)”
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手 忙 脚 乱 - ”Confused, disorder”
Shòu máng jiǎo luàn
Photo is obtained from http://www.bamkapow.com/rejected-iron-man-movie-designs--664-p.html
Kinder version but similar message:
- “I am not free for you. Mon – Fri have to work overtime. Weekends, I want to sleep.”
- “I know you are a nice person, but I am not suitable for you”
- “I am very sorry. I am already attached (名花有主)”
- “Maybe you try getting a foreign wife, for example, from china or Vietnam.”
- “We are not fated to be together.”
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Photo is obtained from http://screenrant.com/images/ironRECOIL3.jpg
感 情 注 定 失 败 - ”Love relationship doomed to failure”
Gǎn qíng zhù dìng shī bài
Other disadvantages and difficulties
- “Do not pollute the nice environment meant for nice and beautiful people.”
- “Why are you interrupting the harmony with your appearance?”
- “Visually: no contribution and value added.”
- “The brain smells and cannot tolerate such ‘stinking’ sight.”
- “Garbage should stay where it belong.”
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义 无 反 顾 - ”Never look back, continue on relentlessly”
Yí wú fǎn gù
Photo is obtained from http://screenrant.com/images/IRONBIG_FRONT4.jpg
Heavenly lib services for the more fortunate
- “You are the sunshine of my day!”
- “Welcome you 24/7.”
- “Please do not hesitate to ask for assistance.”
- “You look stunning today!”
- “I cannot imagine what will happen without you.”
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羞 得 无 地 自 容 - “So ashamed but nowhere to hide”
Xiū dé wú dì zì róng
Photo is obtained from http://powet.tv/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2006/09/IronFlyCity.jpg
Reference
http://www.merriam-webster.com/
http://www.cooqy.com/blog/images/shame.jpg
http://farm1.static.flickr.com/47/169660243_ecaf8fae90.jpg
http://www.bamkapow.com/ul/288-ironRECOIL3.jpg
http://www.bamkapow.com/rejected-iron-man-movie-designs--664-p.html
http://fanart.lionking.org/Artists/Agent/Rejected.gif
Philips Collegues (Young, Old, Male and Female)