Wednesday, December 13, 2023

Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) reveals 5 secrets to 23-year relationship with Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn)



Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn) have been together for 23 years.
PHOTO: Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn) have been together for 23 years.
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They've been together for 23 years and married for 14 — but how do Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn) maintain their relationship?

On Nov 16, the local actress posted a video on Xiaohongshu sharing her secrets.

According to Fann, 52, "love is not easy" and marriage isn't something you are done with after the wedding.

"It requires two people working hard together to maintain it," she wrote in the caption, so she was here to share some "love preservation" tips.


 They've been together for 23 years and married for 14 — but how do Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn) maintain their relationship?
PHOTO: They've been together for 23 years and married for 14 — but how do Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn) maintain their relationship?
According to Fann, 52, "love is not easy" and marriage isn't something you are done with after the wedding. It requires two people working hard together to maintain it,"
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Monday, 21 August 2023 at 05:51 pm
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The first — and most important — thing to her is independence, making sure "even without each other, a person can live a happy life".

This is not to mean that the couple don't need each other, but that they have their own lives and social circles without being dependent on each other.

"If two such full and complete individuals choose to be together, they will not depend on each other, they will have no demands and no need to control the other, and they can nourish each other."


 The first — and most important — thing to her is independence
PHOTO: The first — and most important — thing to her is independence, making sure "even without each other, a person can live a happy life".
This is not to mean that the couple don't need each other, but that they have their own lives and social circles without being dependent on each other.
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Saturday, 02 December 2023 at 10:39 am
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 If two such full and complete individuals choose to be together, they will not depend on each other, they will have no demands and no need to control the other, and they can nourish each other.
PHOTO: "If two such full and complete individuals choose to be together, they will not depend on each other, they will have no demands and no need to control the other, and they can nourish each other."
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Sunday, 17 October 2021 at 07:46 pm
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Fann and Christopher, also 52, got together in the year 2000 but only confirmed their relationship in 2005.

They stayed strong through tough times when the latter was imprisoned in 2007 and finally got married at the Shangri-La Hotel in a lavish and star-studded ceremony in 2009.

They have a son, Zed, born in 2014.


 Fann and Christopher, also 52, got together in the year 2000 but only confirmed their relationship in 2005.
PHOTO: Fann and Christopher, also 52, got together in the year 2000 but only confirmed their relationship in 2005.
They stayed strong through tough times when the latter was imprisoned in 2007 and finally got married at the Shangri-La Hotel in a lavish and star-studded ceremony in 2009.
They have a son, Zed, born in 2014.
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Friday, 23 October 2020 at 08:40 pm
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Fann also shared in her Xiaohongshu video that she believes, no matter how long a couple is together, they shouldn't give up on maintaining their looks.

"Your partner will feel delighted looking at you and you will also feel happy when you appear pretty. A good image affects your emotions and self-confidence subconsciously and it can add points to a relationship. Having a good condition from the inside out will attract better people and things, making you more prosperous," she explained.


 Fann also shared in her Xiaohongshu video that she believes, no matter how long a couple is together, they shouldn't give up on maintaining their looks.
PHOTO: Fann also shared in her Xiaohongshu video that she believes, no matter how long a couple is together, they shouldn't give up on maintaining their looks.
"Your partner will feel delighted looking at you and you will also feel happy when you appear pretty. A good image affects your emotions and self-confidence subconsciously and it can add points to a relationship. Having a good condition from the inside out will attract better people and things, making you more prosperous," she explained.
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Sunday, 17 September 2023 at 07:18 pm
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Third up, Fann thinks that relationships can fail if one party tries too hard to change the other.

"Everyone wants to be comfortable being themselves, so to have a harmonious relationship, we have to be more tolerant — appreciate each other's good points and accept each other's shortcomings," she elaborated.

"No one is complete, but we can manage a relationship perfectly."


 Third up, Fann thinks that relationships can fail if one party tries too hard to change the other.
PHOTO: Third up, Fann thinks that relationships can fail if one party tries too hard to change the other.
"Everyone wants to be comfortable being themselves, so to have a harmonious relationship, we have to be more tolerant — appreciate each other's good points and accept each other's shortcomings," she elaborated.
"No one is complete, but we can manage a relationship perfectly."
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Wednesday, 14 June 2023 at 06:33 pm
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She also thinks couples should share their thoughts openly with each other and respond to the other person well.

She said: "When your partner shares something with you, respond earnestly so that you won't lose your desire to share your life with each other even if you've been together for a long time."


 She also thinks couples should share their thoughts openly with each other and respond to the other person well.
PHOTO: She also thinks couples should share their thoughts openly with each other and respond to the other person well.
She said: "When your partner shares something with you, respond earnestly so that you won't lose your desire to share your life with each other even if you've been together for a long time."
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Saturday, 20 May 2023 at 07:33 pm
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Lastly, Fann said it is important for couples to have regular routines together, which includes preparing romantic surprises for each other.

"Don't forget to send a bouquet of flowers during special days and occasions, and go explore a restaurant together to add some little fun to ordinary relationships and regular life," she said.

"It makes life more meaningful."


 Lastly, Fann said it is important for couples to have regular routines together, which includes preparing romantic surprises for each other.
PHOTO: Lastly, Fann said it is important for couples to have regular routines together, which includes preparing romantic surprises for each other.
"Don't forget to send a bouquet of flowers during special days and occasions, and go explore a restaurant together to add some little fun to ordinary relationships and regular life," she said.
"It makes life more meaningful."
Picture posted by Fann Wong 范文芳 (Fàn Wén Fāng) on Monday, 10 April 2023 at 04:38 pm
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 Absolutely gorgeous!!!
PHOTO: Absolutely gorgeous!!!
Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and Christopher Lee (李铭顺 Lǐ Míng Shùn) have been together for 23 years and married for 14.
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 Precious moments....
PHOTO: Precious moments....
Fann Wong (范文芳 Fàn Wén Fāng) and son, Zed, born in 2014.
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 Sweet couple
PHOTO: Sweet couple
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 According to Fann, 52, 'love is not easy' and marriage isn't something you are done with after the wedding.
PHOTO: According to Fann, 52, "love is not easy" and marriage isn't something you are done with after the wedding.
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By Drima Chakraborty, drimac@asiaone.com, Asiaone, 23 November 2023 at 06:22 pm
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