By Anita Hassam, Fri, Feb 11, 2011, Diva
PHOTO: The best thing you can do for your love life is to love your life! You are more likely to attract people since there's nothing sexier than someone who is passionate and engaged in life.
Who says you have to be miserable this Valentine's Day?
PHOTO: Who says you have to be miserable this Valentine's Day?
PHOTO: Do not have to feel pressured to find someone special
Here are four simple ways to capture the spirit of Valentine's Day.
1) Reconnect with a good friend, real time
PHOTO: Object of my desire didn’t accept my chocolates, - engage our five senses, the level of cortisol - a stress hormone, decreases drastically making us less stressed and happier as a result.
2) Get Over an Ex
PHOTO: The Christian martyr St. Valentine was beheaded on February 14 for performing marriages in secret - you can feel the weight lifted off your shoulders.
3) Make Love a Priority
PHOTO: For those of you who happen to have a "Valentine" who doesn’t make you miserable, appreciate it because it won’t last. Clear time and space in your schedule to make love a priority.
4) Love YOUR life
PHOTO: “Valentine’s Day: a holiday maliciously created to make lonely people extremely depressed.” Your life will be more fun and meaningful if you focus on outlets that bring you pleasure. Reconnect with your passions and indulge in activities that make you happy.
PHOTO: Those of you who don’t have valentines are sure going to feel…well…the same as you always do tomorrow. You’re going to feel alone and useless.